I want 2 wear different clothes,like emo stuff beacause I like those kind of clothes,my rents' r okay w/ it,but it's the kids at skool that make me not want 2......in mid Dec. I did that,then the kids at skool wouldn't stop talking about me,not in a good way either,at lunch my friends wouldn't even sit w/ me!!!!!! Before that I always wore pants & a hoodie...I am in 6th grade & 12 yrs old.....should I start wearing my emo stuff again,or should I stay the same....it's hard cause my friends won't talk 2 me if I change....no1 will...so should I change??? Sry this is sooooo long!!!!!!
2007-02-24 11:55:57 · 13 answers · asked by Serena 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Makeup
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2007-02-24 11:56:41 · update #1
wear what you want, and if your friends have a problem with it, confront them. tell them that dressing differently does not change who you are and you would like to keep them as friends. if they're still ignoring you or not eating with you, then i say lose them. if they let your clothes get in the way of your relationship, they're not really your friends. trust me, the girls in middle school are the worst. they're at that stage where their ridicules make no sense and they don't care. now is a great time to learn to distinguish your real friends from the fake ones. as for the other people who say things behind your back, just act like you have no idea that they're saying things and hold your head high. if they say things directly to you, insist that you're the same person, but don't let them know that they're getting to you.
resist the urge to get into a fight, and resist the urge to cry. at home, when you're mad, start ripping paper. if that doesn't do it for you, get 150 sheets of paper and try to rip it at once. that should do it.
2007-03-03 12:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its what you want to do, go for it! If your "friends" won't talk to you because of what you wear, thats so uncool, and they were never really your friends. And I think you should do what you want. Having your own style is a good thing. And sure maybe their are preppy girls at your school, but I am sure girls at your school want to show their real true emo side too. So start a trend, who knows, you may have followers. And I have to admit I am a preppy girl, and I think its so cool that you want to express yourself. Don't let anyone influence you to be someone your not. Let everyone see the true you! Good Luck!
2007-02-24 12:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by Hillary B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should dress any way that you want to . If they were your true friends they will accept you the way that you are. People are going to talk about you no matter what, so just let them talk. Change is a good thing and you should change your style.
2007-03-03 12:23:56 · answer #3 · answered by violinplayer06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry if your friends won't talk to you because of the clothes you wear then they were not good friends to begin with. Find friends thaat don't care what you wear and care about the person you are.
2007-03-04 11:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Keith R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have bad friends and second of all make your style unique, try not to be like every one else. Try mixing both styles like your old style and your new style so little by little your more comfortable be different and have fun with the youth you have.
2007-03-04 09:08:37 · answer #6 · answered by bright_green_dress 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am in 7th grade. at my school you friends like you for who you are. if you are a emo than wear the clothes. if not be yoursleve. it will take you friends a while to understand but they should still want to be your friend. make sure you do not change
2007-02-24 12:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by love_renee_kitty 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well u gotta be true to urself....if u friends don't like tht u wanna change, then maybe their NOT YOUR FRIENDS....u can always make new friends.....jst think really hard- if u are willing to make new friends, i say go and change...but if u want to keep ur friends (i wouldn't- cuz they didn't talk to u when u went emo is dec.), i would say don't change.....
i suggest go with ur heart! good luck!
2007-02-24 12:03:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl your 12,
relax, injoy being a young, screw them what they say. what does it matter, if you are confident, then its a fashion, fulling it off is all part of it,
anyway being young silly have crazy styles, and silly t-shirts and hairs cuts
because this will be the only few years in you WHOLE life were you can do that without being locked up
2007-02-24 12:04:52 · answer #9 · answered by francis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, in time either your "friends" are either going to have to deal with what you want to wear, or your not going to be able to become YOUR OWN PERSON! Be unique, be a trend setter! If they don't like you for who you are inside, how can they truly be your friends?
2007-03-03 09:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by Chetney W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋