im 14 and "i came out of the closet" when i was 13. ive laways been bi. and now i have an awesome girlfriend. but im so scared that im goin to go to hell. i love God and Jesus with all my heart, but im scared. i know if your bi and dont "act on it" you wont go to hell. but i made out with her last night alot, and so im scared im goin 2 hell, but ima good person, and i want to go to heaven, but i love my girlfriend very much. she means everything to me. i just dont want to go to hell ...will i????
2007-02-24 11:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Of course not! I'm Bisexual and I don't think I'm going to hell!
2007-02-24 15:36:04 · answer #1 · answered by Shelia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha I laugh at you! Your very young, and it takes guts to come out of the closet like that, but i wouldnt worry about going to hell. Christians make up crap like that just to scare people, its not real. God wouldnt send you to hell, because he made you this way he made you bi. God doesnt care if you are gay or straight or watever he just wants us to live a happy life and to be a good person. As long as you do that u are going to be united with the father in heaven. I hope you have fun with ur hot girlfriend.
2007-02-24 20:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by The Opinion 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a victim of our social depravity. At 14 your thoughts should be on other things--like study. This is the very begining of your sexual awareness and how come you are already definite that you are a bi. Your bi-ness reveals our sick social permissiveness than a natural/birth condition. If you do die at this moment, I fear that the Bible says that all sinners will go to Hell. Your mind that should still be relatively innocent is being focused so early on sexual matters. That you 'act on it' is beside the point; your action being the outplay of a conceived sin in your mind. Sorry, there is no palliative to a corrupt mind- in thinking that if you fail to act on it, it is no sin- other than to acknowledge that it is wrong, both at the thought and act levels.
That acknowledgement is the first step towards seeing how wrong it is for you at your age to be sexually active and how socially constructed but unGodly is permissive sexuality--in this case your so-called bi-sexuality--which you were not at 6, neither at 7,8,9 or ten years of age, before you started watching/listening to adult programs and being so influenced or constructed.
As you find these wrong, God is so very willing to give you a fresh start. I wish you stregth as you navigate between social permissiveness and what God wishes--seeing that you yet have a very Godly heart.
2007-02-24 20:06:53 · answer #3 · answered by Elder 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is a God, and if there is a hell, and if God doesn't like bi people, then that's probably where you and I are headed.
Now, I don't see why there should be a God or a hell, but even if there is, I don't see why he should have anything against bi people in particular. I wouldn't worry.
2007-02-24 20:01:55 · answer #4 · answered by garik 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think people put too much emphasis on what they read and have heard of the bible, the only thing here is your strong love and devotion to your girlfriend, and from what I know, god values love over anything, so I would suggest you don't worry about hell at all and just worry about your day-to-day life.
2007-02-24 20:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Lief Tanner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If at '14' you are so mature to know what you want, then why not marry her. I will not judge you here or in any other venue. But the Word of God say that no fornicator will enter Heaven. So now if you love God and your g/f like you say you do, then marry her and ask God for forgiveness and move on. May God Bless U.
2007-02-24 19:50:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, you're not going to hell. don't listen to the Bible thumpers--they are wrong. I am Christian, and I can tell you that homosexuality is not a sin. Otherwise, God would not have created them. I am straight, and I see that God loves all, no matter what.
2007-02-24 20:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Busta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nobody knows. You have to pray and ask God for forgiveness.
If God wanted a girl and a girl and a boy and a boy together he would have made it like that in the beginning
2007-02-24 19:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by Sgirl 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
u have 2 do sumthin 2 be 4given...im atheist but i used 2 be christian..as long as its not one of the 7 deadly sins(which it is not) then ur ok!!!!!!!! im bi 2 and i know its hard...im turning 14 in 2 months and i still have not told my family..it can be scary @ times but as long as u have good friends u'll get through it! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-24 19:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by hopeless_romantic_♥ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
god created you the way you are. so i doubt he will send you to hell. your young and many things await you. enjoy your life and forget hell. it does not exist. no loving god would have such a place in existence.
2007-02-24 19:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by prsj32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋