how do i get my parents to let me go?

Question

well first off let me say this im 15 and my bfs 17 and by the time the vacation comes around we will have been together for more than 13 months.

my boyfriends parents invited me to go on there yearly vacation to Myrtle Beach. Every year their family rents out a condo to share (so its not like we'd be alone). But how can i get my parents to let me go


please help me

ummm during the summer no ones ever home im always home alone all year round

wait rephrase that i'm home alot by myself and in the summer no ones hardley ever home and
it'd only be a week vac.

umm that pycho guy your stupid my parents can be stupid but not that stupid

and its not just his parents its unlces aunt cousins grandparents

why the hell would i want my parents to come on my BOYFRIENDS vacation thats just stupid

we'd be sharing a room with his parents and his grandparents

Answer 1

Speak to your parents. Sit them down and tell them. Tell them who invited you, who will be going, when and where. Then tell them why you want to go. This will show them that you are mature enough, plus it can give them time to talk to your boyfriends family. If you do this in a mature fashion it will not only help you but it will show your parents that you respect them. They are your parents and they love you. Don't sneak things behind their backs because that's how some people have gotten in to some very serious situations. Your safety comes first know matter what. (in any event). Be honest and calm when you are speaking to them. I wish you lots of luck.

Answer 2

I honestly can not blame them because you are only 15, I would not allow my 15 year old daughter to go on a vacation with her boyfriend for a week.

I do not think there really is anything you can do other then maybe try to get his parents to talk to yours , if you are not sharing a room with him and the parents are going to keep an eye on you two then maybe they will let you go but they would have to hear this from his parents.

Answer 3

Well there are 2 things you can do.

1. Since no one is home anyway, you can leave them a note and a number so they can call you when they finally discover you are not home.

2. Ask them, and if they say no, its not the end of the world.

Personally, I may not let my daughter go, because I know there could be some alone time. I think 15 is too young for sex.

Answer 4

Spend the summer with your parents for you will not be at home much longer. Save the summer with the boyfriends parents until you are both legal and out of school.

Answer 5

If his parents are very serious have them come over and talk to your parents or have his mom talk to your mom and then your mom could talk to your dad or something, i think that's the best idea because another adult might be able to put them at ease a little

Answer 6

Have his parents speak with your parents. If your parents are concerned about the two of you being left alone together, his parents can answer any questions about that.

Answer 7

have you thought about having his parents come over and talk to your parents about it i can understand why they wouldn't let you go away for any time with your b/f even if it is with his family you have to get your parents to trust his parents

Answer 8

Ask his parents to ask them n explain 2 them that yall wont be alone

Answer 9

i would prob. lie about going to like a camp or with my friends

or ask his parents to talk to mine and write out everything that will happen on the trip[that they would approve of] and how educational it would be so they can see ur mature

Answer 10

you cant convince them they see a very different picture than you do. they are trying to protect you . its their choice your a minor. they know what 17 year old boys are like you dad used to be one.people around or not its not a good idea you are too young to go away with your boyfriend