First question: How old is the man? If he is 50 or older he will be experiencing some decrease in testosterone production. When the testosterone level goes down, desire goes down. Also, most men 40 or older have some degree of ED or erectile dysfunction. That just means that it doesn't get as hard as quickly at it did when he was 18. Older men need more physical stimulation; just looking doesn't always get them hard. Use your hands, mouth, feet, whatever you are comfortable with to massage, caress, stroke, etc the penis to aid in getting an erection.
If he is a young man, then usually it is not a physical or hormonal problem. That is to say, he may be really stressed out, exhausted or ill.
There is also the chance that he may be interested in someone else.
But the best aphrodisiac is to be there for him, love him, show him you care. And some lacy lingerie doesn't hurt!
2007-02-24 15:34:27
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answered by GalfromCal_NM_TX 2
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No. The desire for sex never dies in a man, but it sometime reduces due to physical reasons. If a person is suffering from some decease like diabetics or cardiac problem, the medication reduces his performance but not desire, which leaves him frustrated at times. Person's mental condition als plays an important role in his sex life.
2016-03-16 00:27:17
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answered by Anonymous
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geezz get a clue unless hes got a serious medical condition or is under some intense stress hes got desire. You simply arent the object of that desire
2007-02-24 11:00:11
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answered by Anonymous
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Try changing your normal routine. Think of ways to make it exciting for him. That could be dressing differently, the use of role playing, maybe a taboo location, you get the idea.
Good Luck
2007-02-24 11:07:27
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answered by zippo 4
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bring a girlfriend of yours in and give him a threesome.I am not joking. He will so fall madly in love with you even more,pretend you and she have been hired by him,straight to the point,no negative drama, when it's done tell her thanks so much and watch him treat you like a queen for weeks after feeling like the luckiest man in the world.
2007-02-24 12:56:19
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answered by zyzar blue 1
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I've hear of things like oysters, horny goat weed... Honestly, I don't know though. Try talking to a doctor.
2007-02-24 13:06:15
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answered by Art Vandalay 2
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Paris Hilton !
2007-02-25 04:57:42
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answered by Anonymous
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Probably a new woman.
2007-02-24 11:01:01
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answered by Bushka 3
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Homeopathic Treatment(s) for Erections-affections/Impotency :-
Erections day and night; at night; incomplete during coition, though desire is strong; violent erections Phosphorus 30 or 200, 4 hourly (3 Doses)
Erections in the morning Ammon Carb 200, 6 hourly
Erections while standing; painful, after coition Acid Phos 30, 4 hourly
Erections with shievering and great desire; delayed; wanting Baryta Carb 200, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections after night pollution Nitric Acid.200, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections with urging to urinate Rhus Tox 30 or 200, 4 hourly
Erections on walking; painful during coition Hepar Sulph 30 or 200, 6 hourly
Erections after coition Sepia 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections painful; night,excessive; during sleeplessness; strong; violent Cantharis 30 or 200, 4 hourly (3 Doses)
Erections with retention of urine Colocynth 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections during erotic thoughts; strong violent with headache Picric Acid 30, 4 hourly
Frequent erections with loss of prostatic fluid Pulsatilla 30 or 200, 4 hourly (3 Doses)
Erections incomplete; during coition; desire lost or diminished Lycopodium 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections incomplete during coition; delayed, stools constipated Graphites 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections violent in the morning; penis becomes relaxed during coition Nux Vomica 30 or 200, 4 hourly
Erections fall when coition is attempted Argentum Nit 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections painful; over excitement Cannabis Sat.200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
With coldness of scrotum Capsicum 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections while sitting Cannabis Indica 200 or 1M, weekly(3 Doses)
Erections after sleep; intense excitement of sexual organs Lachesis 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections without sexual desire while passing stools Thuja Occ 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Strong erections while undressing in a cold room Lyssin 200 or 1M weekly (3 Doses)
Violent erections; arrogant patient; contempt for others Platinum 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
Erections wanting; parts cold, relaxed; desire lost Agnus Castus 30 or 200, 6 hourly
Erections wanting; erections when half-asleep only Caladiums 30 or 200, 6 hourly
Erections wanting; in fat,flabby and chilly patients Calcarea Carb 200 or 1M, weekly (3 Doses)
IMPOTENCY :-
Absence of erection and desire; to tone up the sexual system Nuphar Lut Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly,5 - 10 drops
Due to masturbation; erections only when half-asleep Caladium S 30 or 200, 6 hourly
Due to old age; complete loss of desire (even in young man); premature emission Lycopodium 200 or 1M, fortnightly (3 Doses)
Due to sexual excesses; debility and impotency Kali Bromide 30, 6 hourly
Due to excessive indulging in sex; penis shrivelled; spermatorrhoea; guilty look Staphysagria 30 or 200, 6 hourly
Due to injury Arnica 200 or 1M, weekly (3)
In fat and flabby persons; due to frequent coitus; increased desire Calcarea Carb 200 or 1M, fortnightly (3 Doses)
Due to syphilis; in humorous (jolly) persons Kali Iodide 30, 6 hourly
Impotency due to debility; enlargement of prostate gland Sabal Ser Q(Mother Tincture), 4 hourly, 5 - 10 drops
Due to spinal injury Hypericum 200 or 1M, fortnightly (3 Doses)
In young boys who are afraid of marriage due to their past of free sexual indulgence Anacardium Or 200, weekly (3 Doses)
Impotency with diabetes melitus Moschus 30 or 200, fortnightly (3 Doses)
Due to excessive loss of seminal fluid (chronic); due to onanism Acid Phos Q(Mother Tincture) or 30, 4 hourly
Due to excessive loss of seminal fluid (acute); excited lascivious fancy China 30, 4 hourly
Impotency with lascivious thoughts. Stools constipated, can be passed by mechanical aid-by finger etc., only Selenium 30, 4 hourly
Premature old age, due to abuse of sexual power. Genitalia cold, relaxed, no desire, no erection; after suppressed gonorrhoea Agnus Castus 30 or 200, 4 hourly
Sexual debility due to nervous prostration; to tone up the sexual system Damiana Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly, 5 -10 drops
Neurasthenic impotence. Strong and lasting erections Yohimbinum Q(Mother Tincture) 4 hourly, 5 - 10 drops
With nocturnal emissions followed by great weakness Medorrhinum 200 or 1M, fortnightly (3 Doses)
Due to suppression of desire (chronic bachelors) or excessive indulgence Conium Mac 200 or 1M, fortnightly(3 Doses)
Take Care and God Bless !
2007-02-24 18:57:36
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answered by Soul Doctor 7
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