2007-02-24 10:04:56 · 10 answers · asked by LadyNitecat 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
Scorpio here, Yes, I lost my fiancee' over 1/2 a year ago. She left me and stomped all over my heart. Turned out she had lied through our entire relationship, she waited till she had moved out of town to tell me because she couldn't even say it to my face. It hurt like hell. We Scorpios are very sensitive. I too thought I would never get over it. I never let go of anything as Scorpios tend to do. I haven't started dating yet either. But it'll happen. It just takes time. Trust me, I think of her less and less. And once you find someone else, it will fade much faster.
It would help if I knew the exact situation but I'll answer a few scenarios as best I can.
If he left you then just tell yourself that he just wasn't the right one if he did that. You can't control or change people, All you can do is move on. You wouldn't want to be with someone who's just going to leave you. He may have been the love of your life but you weren't his. The right person is still out there apparently, Take time to heal and go out there and find him.
If you left him, Well then that was your choice. Either try to fix your mistake or move on with your life. Take the time to make peace with your decision. If you feel guilty, that's just something you'll have to carry with you until you can forgive yourself. Perhaps getting forgiveness from him would help.
And if it was something terrible that took him from you. Then time is your only medicine, and I think whoever you were with would want you to move forward and life and be happy, even with someone else.
I hope I was able to help. Good luck to you!
2007-02-25 02:09:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not worry so much. I have one Scorpio friend, a nice girl and she broke up with her bf too, they've been together for several years . She still loves him but with the time she gets over him. The same will happen with you too. Just take your time and do not be negative, when Mr Right comes you will know it for sure.
The Scorpio is very intuitive and they really feel more about the guy they like, they are not loosing their time with someone not worth. So just trust the voice of your heart and open up yourself for the other people around you. I know that once hurt the Scorpio will be more and more cautious for the next time but even cautious, a true love can overcome all obstacles. And I believe that when you broke up with that guy, he izn't the one because if he was he should be still there with you. The best is to come, just give the possibility of the time to heal your wound. Try to forget and to forgive, do not bother your mind with a sad feeling about that guy, it is his loss after all.
I am really sorry for what happened to you but honestly I do not know a Scorpio girl that can't overcome something bad, the Scorpio is strong and they always find an exit if a difficult situation. Being a Taurus I am often week and I am not afraid to show weakness, but one of the qualities I admire in my Scorpio friends is that they won't leave the things like that, they will fight and will get what they want just because they really can do and achieve what they are trying. Just close the page of the past and open the new page, I am sure you will find your dream guy...last thing..try a Cancer or a Pisces guy the next time and wish you luck!
2007-02-24 19:16:03 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter what sign you are: self-pity can be common among ALL 12 zodiac signs, so dont think you're that important.
If you REALLY want a relationship, Scorpios have no problem bouncing back from adversity. If you really DONT want a relationship, go ahead and enjoy the pitiful and pathetic world of scorpio's dull side. But dont expect much company.
2007-02-24 21:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you will. I am a Scorpio too, and we do feel very deeply about many things, including love. But very few guys catch our interest for long term, and in fact, most of them, I couldn't wait to get away from. What I think you should do is appreciate yourself. Find your good qualities and work with them, and be thankful for them. Also, go shopping. It really helps. The hardest part is getting yourself to go, but when you get there, you'll feel better. Mainly just focus on you, and what you deserve.
2007-02-24 20:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by CATWOMAN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to popular belief, Scorpio's do love very deeply. You may never get over losing the love of your life, but you will find love again. You just have to put forth the effort.
2007-02-24 18:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Gelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scorpios do love deeply and once in love they love forever. You will get over your love, and you will learn to love again, but a piece of that love will still be in your heart.
2007-02-25 03:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by DoLz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes time will heal your broken heart possibly purging and forgiving yourself
2007-02-24 18:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by mpwflowers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think little pieces of our lovers stay with us forever. That's ok. take this time to regroup .and when you are ready to open up again,love will come to you.
2007-02-24 19:13:02 · answer #8 · answered by t.catz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a good therapist -of any sign.
2007-02-24 21:06:59 · answer #9 · answered by nycbabybear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes eventually....a new Pisces love can be Great medicine!!
2007-02-24 19:11:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋