Okay, he deal is, I was at the club cause its an average Saturday night – we were 20 friends in total – guys n girls. . We walked in and settled in, we were just standing around the bar… When I noticed these 5 people sitting on a table. I hardy paid attention till I heard my name – 2 women (her friends) were talking and then they said – OMG its *my name*, then they high 5ed each other and told her I was there. I was just standing around the bar with friends, Then I started noticing she moved a chair closer to where I was – and made it obvious that she was looking at me – So I smiled a few times, and then it hit me – Every time she looked at me we all were busy smiling, laughing or taking group pictures for our album…. However she just didn’t stop looking…
Eventually we guys moved to another table – but I have no idea why she did that - What do u think is happening? What do I do? What’s going on here??
please post asap
2007-02-24 09:54:07 · 15 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
okay, wiell, 1st time he dumped me, then came back - again and again and again..
6months later -
2nd time - It was a mutual agreement to stop talking... no one dumped anyone really - it was mutual
2007-02-24 09:55:47 · update #1
Maybe she was drunk or just trying to decide if you are still interested in your ex. Whatever the reason was, it does not sound like anything you need to concern yourself about. The relationship is over and you are better off. Right? She might have been amazed at how attractive you really are and wonder why the two of you broke up. Well, that is her problem now. Best wishes.
2007-02-24 10:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Jess4rsake 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's jealous, plain and simple. It's an insecurity thing that's making her jealous, I'm sure, but that's definately what it is. She's probably looking at you thinking "what did he see in her", or typical chick things like "Ew, oh my god, she's hideous... damn, if he liked someone like that, that mean I'm gross too" (not that you are hideous and/or gross, but insecurity makes girls think other people are yuck so that they can feel better about themselves).
Next time it happens, just ignore her and don't let it bug you. It'll peeve her off that you're a superfox and that you're completely fine with her and her juvinile pathetic friends acting retarded to get your attention, and hopefully it'll make her stop and realize how stupid she looks.
GOOD LUCK!!!
2007-02-24 18:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by RONALD J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks you are NOT all that bad that your ex said about you! Or, going the other way, maybe she is bi and was told that you are also and was fantasizing about you. Either way, next time it happens, approach her nicely, introduce yourself and watch her re-actions. You can tell alot from a persons body language and tone of voice. If she gets rude or obnoxious, then let it go and decide that your ex deserves her!!
2007-02-24 18:11:02 · answer #3 · answered by tdoh2o4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You got 20 friends. I got like 1 maybe 2 friends.
But really, she's probably wondering the same thing about you because everytime she looked at you, you looked back. It's like when I am in the club and I see a woman checking me out, so I keep looking to see if she's still checking me out, at the same time she sees me look so she's looks at me to see if still I'm checking her out.----We're both looking at each other thinking the other person is checking us out. Silly, huh? Don't look too much into it.
2007-02-24 18:02:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is checking u out, maybe she wanted to talk to u but was afraid to, maybe thinking u unapproachable. u are sort of rivals, other women check out ex's of a new love, looking at her to see what he saw in her. she may be jealous, obviously he has talked alot about u to her, she is curious about u, who u are, what u look like, what kind of person u are, just curiosity. for some reason women want to know about the mans past, and his past loves.
2007-02-24 18:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing really going on. She's just curious and checking out the competition.
2007-02-24 17:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she was trying to make you feel uncomfortable so you would leave. That way her main competition would be out of the room. It's her problem, not yours.
2007-02-24 18:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she thinks shes better than you and trying to let you know that she has your man. shes making a name for herself and trying to scare you. dont even pay attention to her. ppl like that arent worth thinking about. if she confronts you. tell her that you are over you ex, and you dont want any trouble.
hope i helped
Sabby
2007-02-24 18:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Sabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to know more of what kind of girls your ex typically goes for? Or maybe she wants a three-some...
2007-02-24 17:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Susan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a combination of curiosity and insecurity. Most of us would do a little of that.
2007-02-24 17:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋