before i start let me just let you know one thing: IM NOT A DORK! at my school i am not popular but i am also not a geek. anyway here is my question:
in 6th grade, i made these new friends who all went to the same school. I have had a pretty good relationship through 6th, 7th, and 8th grade with many of them. I flip between two emotions with them: 1. i am really friends with them and they really are friends with me and they dont find me annoying or anything (in other words they enjoy my company and i am true friends with them) and then when i start to really feel like that and believe it emotion 2 comes on (and they make me feel it): they all get together outside of school without me and have an excellent time. And they really are my true friends so please dont say they arnt! We have so much in common and i just want to stay friends and i want them to include me more! So do you have any ideas of how i can start to feel more included with them and have them treat me like a true friend?
2007-02-24 09:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by youllneverknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There are many ways you could improve your relationship with your friends without interfering with your own character, because normally I would basically say just be your self. If they your friends they should accept you as you are, but you mention the word 'emotion' in your statement .
The best way is to really earn there acceptance is to include them more since you have a lot in common. What I mean is be the one to initiates events. You have to lead your friends into doing things. You be the one to make the suggestions. Have you invited your friends to have a sleep over? Provide movies, popcorn, candy and drink.
Be affection, caring and loving person toward your friends. If you anyone is having trouble, show an interest in helping your friends. When you see them having wonderful time without you, join them and make it even more fun. Invite them for some ice-cream, but mostly be yourself. It also wouldn't hurt to attend church service with some of your friends and invite them as well to your church. Also keep in mind that each of your friends are different in their ways. You can become closer when you associate with your friend individually. Just be a good friend, and you can't go wrong!
God Bless
2007-02-24 10:56:19 · answer #1 · answered by tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the end of each week just say to them when you are all together:
Hey guys what are you all doing this weekend? Have any of you got any good ideas or places for us to go and have a good time? This way you are indicating to them that you want to be with them over the weekend. Try the same method for week nights as well. Or you could suggest some things to do or places to go, yourself, to them.
2007-02-24 18:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with them. if they are truely worthy of your friendship they will care how this makes you feel...........and be the friend to them that you want in return. would you want one of them to tell you if something you were doing hurt their feelings? hope it works out, you sound like a good friend
2007-02-24 18:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by moma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them " i tarted ,i tarted "
2007-02-24 17:55:36 · answer #4 · answered by !m me 4ever @lw@y$!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋