BUT SHE NEEDS TO CONVINCE ONE OF HER FRIENDS TO JOIN.
2007-02-24 09:48:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My late husband once asked me. And I said yes... You never know until you try. The worst thing she can do is say no, and that you are disgusting for bringing it up. Honestly, most women realize that men are pigs. Mostly, we expect you to want that kind of stuff, but most women I know would have said no. I was curious. Ask while watching a good porn movie with it together, when you think that watching it finally excites her. Actually, you should never, EVER involve a family friend into such a thing. You do NOT want anyone knowing that you did this, or that your wife agreed. Keep your private affairs private. If she agrees, pay a very expensive call girl who will shower her with attention, not just you. Make sure that she knows to do that. Your wife will know that you paid this woman to be with you, so there will never be not too much jealousy. If you have sex with her friend, she will lose a friend. Another alternative is a swing club, they have those everywhere.
2007-02-24 10:05:39 · answer #1 · answered by elise080601 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you were to convince her you would also have to be willing to not only have it with you and 2 women but also you, her and another man, Now that being said. After this 3some takes place do you think you will ever trust your wife again or that your wife will ever trust you? If she needs convincing then its not worth it unless you just want a divorce because one or both of you would always wonder if you thought sex was good with the other and decided to continue it with just the 3rd person. Keep it in your fantasy file and dont try to convince her.
2007-02-24 18:15:37 · answer #2 · answered by Andrea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds more like ur askin how to get ur wife 2 let u sleep with one of her friends under acceptable circumstances. i think u called it a 3some? if it's something she wanted 2 do, then u wouldn't need to convince her. u on the other hand seem 2 eager. u might wanna leave this one as a fantasy ONLY, honey!!
2007-02-24 09:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't!! She needs to be able to accept this aspect of sexuality on her "own terms". Suggesting it only occassionaly works more wonders than bugging her about it. Do you want a 3sum with another woman, if so, be able to accept the fact that she might want a 3sum with another man!! If your not open to her desires, why should she be open to yours?? Be cool and have fun
2007-02-24 10:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by tdoh2o4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only Heart-break lies on the end of that trail. Nice maybe at first, but Trust and Respect, almost or worse, will be what awaits later. Up to you, but think of her and what her feelings mean to you, and please tell me you don't have any children. If you do, you're just loose as a goose ! God Bless !!
2007-02-28 05:54:44 · answer #5 · answered by fuzzypetshop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are two bimbos away from the threesome. Don't degrade your wife. If this is your fantasy spend the money and hire a couple of hookers.
2007-02-24 09:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get married? Marriage is between 2 people. If you do this it's gonna be nothing but heartache and headache.
2007-02-24 09:58:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just stop. You may as well start looking for a good lawyer right now, because you're gonna need one real soon.
2007-02-24 09:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Reo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dah, I think you are on the wrong web page as this is
Marriage and divorce. CHEATERS is on another web site.
2007-02-24 14:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, your stupid for getting married and your wife is stupidier for staying married to you! Divorce her and find 2 dumb girls!
2007-02-24 09:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by Mammamia3 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋