You will regret hurting yourself for the rest of your life if you do it. I know that you want attention. 13 is a very awkward age. I did things at that age to get attention. Things that were just as bad. Now I am 31 and I have a lot of regrets from around that age until I was about 21. You are growing up and changing. Your body and mind are going through so many things right now. Dont give in to what you know is wrong. You will get the attention you crave and deserve when you do the right things. I found it helpful to talk to people who were older and wiser than me. My life really started to change when I met my 10th grade teacher. She was VERY tough and caring. She was uncoventional in her teaching methods and really helped me grow up. You will get through this. Pray and things will get better. Prayer really does work. Life is hard sometimes but the challenges we face make us better and stronger. Pray that someone will come your way to help you overcome the problems your having.
2007-02-24 19:14:43
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answered by Cindy 1
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Well, if you must...
Roller blading is a really good way to do it! If you already know how to roller blade then blind fold yourself and go in a parking lot with lots of gravel.
Let's be honest here, you know how to break an arm. This question you put up was almost the same as Brittney Spears cutting off her hair. It's a way of saying your tired, your numb, you've had enough, and yet you still really want help. Help to not feel what you are feeling. Thirteen, you must be going through a lot if you already feel this way at thriteen. Hurting yourself isn't going to make it go away or better. You know that. Feel the fear and do what it takes to get out of your situation that has you feeling like hurting yourself. If no one has ever told you before... you are your own best friend. You are worth saving yourself. You know this somewhere inside yourself or you wouldn't have put up this question. Do what ever it's gonna take to make you feel better. Telling the right people, or having to go against someone that you love, because they are to afraid to speak up for you. It may feel impossible now, but once you do make a change for yourself, you'll see life has a way of working itself out later. If a grown-up is not helping you... then it's time for you to go around this grown-up and make the change. This grown-up could be paralized with their own fears and not be able to help you. So, my advice here is... go help yourself, instead of taking it out on yourself, your hurting the wrong person. You need to want to stop, if your gonna help yourself. Just know this... you are not the only one who is going through this and you won't be the last. It happens to more people than you could imagine. It's just not spoken about. Who knows maybe you'll not only save yourself, but the grown-up who should be helping you could get saved in the process of you helping you!
My thoughts and prayers are with you, and I wish you all the best... Good Luck!
2007-02-24 09:40:11
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answered by Lizzy 2
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I tried this too. I did it when I was 8, I wanted attention. I pretended that I fell off my couch and landed my arm on a table. I didn't cry I just didn't use my arm for a long time and pretended that it hurt a lot! Finally, my mom took me to a doctor, he said i needed to go to the ER. I got my arm x-rayed and it was fractured. I got a cast and I was happy! All my friends got to sign it. Believe me it really did hurt like hell don't do it. NOT FUN KID!
2007-02-24 10:30:51
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm 15 and just sprained my wrist skateboarding and I'm in a lot of pain...I can't imagine a broken wrist...don't try and break your wrist...imagine the doc bills!!!
2007-02-24 17:39:56
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answered by Jason from CALI 2
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ive always wanted to break someones arm or wrist.. and id gladly do it for free.. but it sounds like you need some serious help there youngster..
2007-02-24 09:39:52
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answered by LION 6
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Do what I did when I was nine,
Be walkin' in the dark trip over a cord and try to catch yourself with your arm bent in a funny way!
yea its true....go ahead laugh!
Idiots!
2007-02-24 09:39:09
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answered by ~*The Show Must Go On*~ 5
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ok dont trip i know what your going thru im 14 well i once thru my self from some stairs so i wouldnt go to scool if u have a bike or a scooter u can go really fast then throw yur self juzt wear a helmet so u wont break yur head
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2007-02-24 09:38:02
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answered by Anonymous
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hi, im cc, if u wanna break ur arm babez, all you have to do is this...
put your and on the top of your stairs ans sit on it, with you facing down the stairs, then, push yourself off the ground, and voilah! you got one broken wrist, coming right up!!!
2007-02-26 21:18:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Get Mental Help
2007-02-24 09:37:21
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answered by Krissy 4
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like oooooh myyy goooddddd you would be SOOO POPULAR if you just jumped off a bridge into a pit of lions & poison & poison ivy!! ooooh after that lets drive a lamborghini off a cliff!!
my gosh GROW UP. are you trying to get attention? nobodys gonna think youre smart or anything if youre cutting yourself. its such a weak thing to do!! get help from a psychologist!! talk to your parents! maybe you need meditation & lots of medication but my gosh dont hurt yourself. theres no point. if youre depressed then why would you deliberately cause yourself more pain? live a normal life & find NORMAL ways to get through your problems.
2007-02-24 09:38:47
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answered by es muy awesome 3
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