everytime we discuss something and getting misundertanding ach other, my boyfriend slaps me in my back, arms and stomach. I ******* HATE IT!
advice? thnx!
2007-02-24 09:25:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Stop being a punching bag for an immature adolescent male and leave him.
A boy or man that slaps and hits out of frustration has not learned how to resolve problems maturely.This does change with time though.It gets worse.
Don't waste your valuable life and time on a person like this.
2007-02-24 09:29:09 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ ♥ C.J. ♥ ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all, this guy is a waste of air. A real man does hot hit women, so this punk is not a man. That is not what a man does, that is not what being a man is about.
Second, I see a lot of advice that you dump him. Don't just dump him, file assault charges against him. ("Domestic violence" laws apply here, even if you don't live together, because you're in an relationship.)
Third, tell him to take a hike. But first, tell him to listen to the song "Goodbye Earl" by the Dixie Chicks. Tell him it's a very good song about the risks of trying to come back for you.
2007-02-24 10:23:10 · answer #2 · answered by JohnD 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello First of all I am sorry for this to happen to you. Now you need to leave him. because you are in an abusive relationship. He does have some type of issue. And if he slaps you over a very small subject.Think about what may happen if it is a very big subject. NO WOMAN NEEDS TO BE HIT OR SLAPPED EVER. You are better than this and please end it and make sure it never happens again.Go to some safe shelters for women for help on this matter. But make sure you are safe and he does not slap or hit you again.RAY
2007-02-24 09:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM! SERIOUSLY! This is a form of abuse that will only get worse with time! You need to send a clear message that you will not tolerate this kind of behavior and, judging from the fact that you say that he does this every time you and he have a misunderstanding, he won't listen to your words. So go! You don't need this and you should not put up with it anymore! Think about your safety and your future. Do you really want to live like this? No man is worth this. Find someone who respects you and who knows how to communicate like a human being instead of like an animal! Good Luck and Stay Safe!
2007-02-24 09:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
warn him severely that if he does it again, there will be consequences. Don't even let him get away with it once. It might become more serious later on. Tell your family, friends etc so they are aware of what you are trying to do. Sometimes it is a bad habit that guys get into - they dont see it as being too wrong.
If he doesn't listen, pick up your pride and leave him. Its not worth being a statistic
2007-02-24 12:20:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going to be straight up and i hope you think about this post . It doesnt get better it gets worse first the slaps then the punches then the kicks . i dont care how much he says sorry he will do it again . you might love him but love isnt pain and humiliation . leave him for your owen sake and if you have any doubts about what i have written contact batterd women in you comunitey.
2007-02-24 09:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by dan m 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he had a harsh upbringing, maybe his dad hit him. If that's the case then he can seek therapy for that sort of behaviour because he might not have as much control over his actions as he thinks. But otherwise just DUMP the ***
2007-02-24 09:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's about BOUNDARIES.
He hits you, & there's no consequence to the behaviour. So it's OK if he hits you even if you say otherwise.
If you haven't done so already, tell him that if he lays another hand on you in anger, that it's over between you PERIOD.
I can promise you that he will test your resolve so be ready to carry through with what you said. If you don't, then you had better get used to him hitting you then.
2007-02-24 09:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by No More 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get away from this guy, unless you want to wait until the slapping turns into punching. If this guy ever loved you at all he would never have laid his hands on you out of anger. I grew up watching my mom get her a@# kicked by my ex-stepfather, it started with slapping and ended up with him stabbing her seven times with a butcher knife from our kitchen drawer. Things NEVER CHANGE with these kind of men. Get out while you still can.
2007-02-24 09:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by Lil Red Rabbit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his dumb@ss!!! He has no right to be slapping you. You need a real man not a little boy that starts hitting you when he doesn't get his way
2007-02-24 09:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋