i am confused.... how do i tell if im bi?

Question

cause i think i like girls and i know i like boyz. but whenever a girl walks by... i get chills. and i think wierd things.... please ur answers will help me dearly !!! im am going in insane .....also im going into high skool next year and it would be nice to know !!!

Answer 1

If you are attracted to girls, then you're attracted to girls. Call it what you like. Just go with how you feel. You're not required by any law to be a certain way. It's the natural law that governs you, so "be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind." -- Dr. Seuss

Answer 2

All over the world, God created a natural order for things, the closer you get to God, the farther you will get from these unnatural feelings. Also, often people with bad fathers or an abusive past have a disconnect regarding the proper attractions and affections. I hope that helps.

I'm adding this part...notice how nice mine looks for a Christian. There are people that are there to bring help and not condemn and others who make everything just seem totally crazy and out of this world. I've written this post considering where you're at. Take it to heart.

Answer 3

Hi Tina,

This is a tough one that only you will be able to answer. There is nothing wrong with bisexuality and that may be what you are going through. Often, people who are gay go through a period of transition in which they idenfity as bisexual. It eases the process for many of us. Moreover, many people go through a bi- or lesbian stage and then decide they are heterosexual. There's no hard and fast rule. You yourself will eventually figure it out.

You don't say where you are, but many larger communities have gay, lesbian, bissexual, transgender, and questioning youth groups.

Just keep in mind that no matter what people say you are normal and you have no need to be embarrased by what you are going through. Also, it is equally as common to feel some guilt (at least from a guy's view) about sex after the fact when one is first sexually active.

At any rate, please talk to someone about safer sex and find an adult you trust with whom you can talk without being judged. Good Luck!

Answer 4

well personally i think that everyone is bi. everyone pretty much looks at everyone. and its normal. being bi can be fun. you dont have any limits. you can look at anyone and fell anything for anyone. but sometimes it is easier to pick between homosexual and hetrosexual. you might get a bit confused likeing both girls and boys. i can really relate with you because im going into high school next year and it was really important ffor me to figure out what i am looking for. i am also bisexual. but if you do choose to be this way, just try not to get really mixed up with your feelings. with choosing between guys and girls. try both. thats what im doing and it seems to work good. but i also realized that i like girls more than boys. but it really can be confusing. when your with a guy you want a girl and when your with a girl you want a guy. its crazy but just let everything slide and soon it will slide right into place. if that isnt confusing enough. but soon you might become happy with whatever you choose. but i feel with being bi, i have more freedom.

Answer 5

If You Are Physically Sexual and Mentally Attracted To Men And Women Your Are Bisexual If You Haven't Been With A Girl Try It And See If You Like It.

Answer 6

No one can really tell you whether or not you are bisexual. There is no one way to figure it out. If this something you are really concerned about, then the only way to know is to experiment and see if it is something that you really enjoy. If you find another girl that you are attracted to and care about, don't be afraid to see if it turns into something real.

I've said it a million times, and I think it is very important to remember that sexuality is fluid, that no one definition will be able to describe you and your feelings. The main thing is to not be afraid, you may end up supressing something that may be part of who you are.

Answer 7

yet another Lesbian troll alert. hear. A at as quickly as female would not say a guy's penis is disgusting or get grew to become off. maximum vagina's are gruesome yet i'm unlikely to call them disgusting. it incredibly is ridiculous. Plus the penis is a acceptable piece of sculpture whilst erect. You mentioned you like ladies. you're actually not perplexed. i think of you're already bisexual having a comedian tale on the Yahoo community.

Answer 8

Few weeks ago I was discussing with my husband how I might or are going to feel when our two boys are going to bring home their girlfriends, I can appreciate that they are only 5 years and 3 years old but still I though that I talk about it anyway.

I was surprised by my husband when he turned the question and said to me not to worry about the boys bringing girlfriends home, but think about what or how are we likely to feel when they bring boyfriends home because they might be gay.

I must say that the thought of our boys being gay never crossed my mind. Now since my husband has said this to me and we felt that we ought to learn and know more about ths subject.

Having lived in California my husband has lot more knowledge about the Gays and Lesbians then I expected him to know.

I must also say that I am not shocked to learn about the Gays and Lesbians however I am concerned for their own understanding of their sexuality because I personally feel that sadly to some Lesbians being Gay or Lesbian is joke or something that they can and do experiment during their Leisure time.

However Being Gay or Lesbian is not a Joke if you look up in the dictionary you will find the meanings of the word Gay :=
1. of, pertaining to, or exhibiting homosexuality.
2. of, pertaining to, or noting the same sex.
–noun 3. a homosexual person.

lesbian : =
1. of or pertaining to Lesbos.
2. (usually lowercase) of, pertaining to, or characteristic of female homosexuality.
3. (usually lowercase) erotic; sensual.
–noun 4. an inhabitant of Lesbos.
5. (usually lowercase) a female homosexual.
Homosexual :=
1. of, pertaining to, or exhibiting homosexuality.
2. of, pertaining to, or noting the same sex.
–noun 3. a homosexual person.

sexual desire or behavior directed toward a person or persons of one's own sex.

BI-SEXUAL :=
a. of both sexes.
b. combining male and female organs in one individual; hermaphroditic.

2. sexually responsive to both sexes; ambisexual.
–noun 3. Biology. an animal or plant that has the reproductive organs of both sexes.
4. a person sexually responsive to both sexes; ambisexual. sexual activity with both men and women .

i CANT BE CERTAIN BUT IT SOUNDS AS YOU MIGHT BE BI SEXUAL.

It might be better to talk to a Doctor or a therapist to be 100% sure.

All the best

Answer 9

well this means you do have a thing for girls. yeah, if u think of weird things about or with a girl, u might be bi- if u still like guys though. Personally, think of what other people would say if they found out u were bi. You wouldn't want that kind of trouble, rite?For now, keep on going and test if u like girls-be around with girls and see what's up. did that help, hun?

Answer 10

You are possesed with a spiritual being that is causing you to be attracted to women. This spiritual being is of a masculine type and it is normal for this spiritual being to be attracted to females. I would ask a minister to pray with. That could help this matter. Sometimes fasting and prayer will help rid these spiritual beings. Fast for three days. Pray as well in Jesus Christ name for help in removing this influence over you, that you repent and want no part of this spiritual being.