My parents left me home alone and I was grounded so I was not suppose to leave the house, but my friends came over and wanted to go sleding and snowboarding. I knew I shouldn't go but I did anyway. I didn't leave them a note or anything which was pretty bad. We went and time went by fast and before i knew it it was 5pm. I started heading home and on they way back my mom pulled up and saw us and said she thought i got kidnapped and they had been looking for me for over an hour. She was really mad. I got in the car and she took me home. She lectured me the entire way home about how she concerned about my safety and really mad about leavnig when i was grounded.
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5 days ago
We got home and i took off all my snow gear and stuff and i headed into the family room and all of the sudden my mom gabbed me by my shirt and said that i was getting a spanking for what I did. I told her I was 13 and way too big to be punished like that. She then pulled me into my room and closed the door. She then started lecturing me about safety and not listening and a bunch of stuff. I hadn't got a spanking since I was 11 and I didn't think she would do it. I told her I will do better and said I was sorry for sneaking out. I really wasn't sorry thow.
5 days ago
She said that she was glad I was sorry but it was't going to get me out of getting punished. She told me take my pants down. There was no way I was going to do this so I went for the bedroom door to get the heck out of there. She grabbed me by the shirt before I could get out and pulled me over to the bed and sat down. I tried to get away from her but couldn't. She got my jeans down and put me on her lap and started hitting me. I tried to stop her and stand up and pull my jeans back up. I told her to let go of me and told her she was crazy. She then locked my legs and pulled my arms behind my back so I couldn't move or anything. I was yelling at her and she pulled down my boxers and i told her no. She then started hitting me again and it hurt so much i didn't think i would cry but i did. I told her i would be good and finally she stopped. I cried for 10 minutes.
5 days ago
I am 13 and am almost an adult. I think I am way to big to get treated like this. What can I do to get back at mom?
2007-02-24 09:10:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
U DESERVED IT, U WAS GROUNDED AND STILL DIDN'T TAKE UR PUNISHMENT SO UR MUM MADE SURE U TOOK THIS 1 LOL
AT 13 UR STILL A CHILD AND AS 4 PULLING UR PANTS DOWN YES OK UR STARTING PUBERTY BUT SHE ONLY SEE UR BUTT AND SHE'S UR MUM SO Y SHOULDN'T SHE HAVE DONE THAT.
U BEHAVED LIKE A IRRESPONSIBLE CHILD AND U WAS TREATED LIKE A CHILD.
GOOD ON UR MUM SHE SHOULD HAVE MADE U CRY FOR MORE THAN 10 MINUTES.
NEXT TIME LISTEN TO UR PARENTS AND U WONT GET SPANKED AGAIN
2007-02-25 03:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by SILVER-STAR 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
So, which are you? Thirteen? Or 15 nearly 16?
You were grounded (no doubt for some misbehavior!!) You chose to ignore the grounding.
A little more difficult to ignore a serious spanking!! While you are still a teen, your folk "own" your butt and should do what it deserves. They should NEVER have to take your trousers and boxers down; it's difficult to do, but when they tell you to "bare and bend" then that's what you should do. Promptly.
You said you were "sorry" but you really were not. Maybe that's why they figure you need military academy? Or else to have a backside that is SORE enough that you will be SORRY and learn to behave as you should.
2007-02-25 11:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop doing dumb stuff! You knew you were grounded. And yet you had to sneak out!!! Wrong!!! You may be 13, but you are a long way from being an adult and you are not too young or too big to be spanked on the bear butt! You deserved it and got it! I would give your mom a high-5 if I saw her. I hope she grounds you for a longer period of time and also takes stuff away from you!
Grow up and obey your parents! That is your job!
2007-02-24 18:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you said: i am 13 and am almost and adult! i'm sorry but i have to disagree! it's not like i'm almost and adult either though, i'm only 14!!! i don't consider "almost an adult" to be under the age of 16! why: because when you are 15 you are right in the middle of 10 and 20 so you are just as much a kid as you are an adult! also you should not have disobeyed your parents! unfortunally by doing this you probably took away all they're trust in you! i do not think that she should have spanked you, but i do beleive that you deserved the lecture and you probably should have been grounded for at LEAST 2 weeks!!! remember i'm probably only like a few months to a year older then you! i'm not trying to be mean, i'm telling you the truth!
2007-02-24 18:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by Haley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At your age, she was incorrect to pull down your boxers. However, she is your mom, and you need to listen to her, obey her, respect her, and be more responsible for your age. I have heard of other 13 yr olds getting a spanking, not with pants down, but it depends on how serious the situation. You were very irresponsible by NOT leaving a note, letting her know where you were. I'm glad you are grounded. I hope for a month. These days, she did right by spanking you. If you don't listen to her, she has the right to spank, just not bare skinned. Please, do yourself a HUGE favor. Starting right away, show her the respect she deserves, and do as you are told. Take responsibility for your actions. My parents taught me mutual respect-they left notes when they were not going to be home or on time, and phoned as needed. Expected the same from me and my sisters.And we did. I think really that is what she is really wanting you to learn. There are so many "creeps" out there these days, she was truly worried about you, to go looking for you as she did. She must have been livid with you. And I don't blame her one bit. Please, show more respect, responsibility for your actions, etc., and I do believe she won't spank you again. She probably did it as a last resort, because she probably felt like you needed to really learn this lesson. Take care.
2007-02-24 18:02:05 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first 13 is not even close to being an adult. an adult would not of acted like you did. well most adults wouldnt. be glad to have a mom that cares and nest time you leave the house leave a detailed note on when you left where you are going and when you aill be back. also getting back at your mom??? i got the best thing you can do to her for spanking you. BEHAVE earn her trust so what she says be a role model for your friends. have some RESPECT for your mom. that would be the best thing to do to "get back at her" show her you love her and you understand where she is coming from. and you just wait, one day you may have a daughter of your own would you want her to treat you the same way you treated your mom. that is the problem with kids these days you only think of yourself. here is a thing to remember BEFORE you do anything in life ask yourself "what will happen if i do this???" you have all the right answers in yourself. last but not least ace like an adult but remember you dont really want to grow up that fast do you??
2007-02-24 17:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by dekitty1 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
WOW no offense but your mom pulled your pants down and spanked you that way. Is ur mom going through a rough time.. I think that is pretty weird. And dont get back at her. Just let it go. Ur not almost an adult and you scared her half to death. She was worried about you. You should be happy she loves you so much
2007-02-24 17:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are never to old for a beating. You obviously did something to get on punsihment in the first place. You weren't even sorry. If you were dead somewhere she wouldn't have had a clue as to where you were. You shouldn't want to get back at your mom. You should apologize and actually think what you did. When she got home and you weren't there or when she called and you weren't there she probably felt so scared. You have 4 or 5 years before you move out of her house so you need to learn to respect her. You probably scared her half to death and you still want to get her back. That is rude and incosiderate of other people's feelings.
2007-02-24 17:20:45 · answer #8 · answered by sweetiepie411@sbcglobal.net 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
You are 13 and did what you knew you should not do. Dont make it worse by trying to "get back" at Mom. Act grown up and take your punishment like a man.
2007-02-24 19:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
oK KIDO,
I can't believe your thinking about ways to get back at her... you really have alot to learn.. 13 is a long way from grown! Think about it, can you drive a car (legally), can you work (legally)? NO, and No so .........Show some respect for your MOM, she obviously loves you more than you know... you need to realize what you did to her, she was scared for YOUR life.
Your MOM is probably the only person that is ever going to LOVE you as long as you live, Cherish that!
P.S.LOOK UP THE WORD KARMA
2007-02-24 18:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by Snippy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋