are fat as hell, looks like slobs with mickey mouse shirts on and cheap pants and 3 kids can afford to drive new vehicles (yes Im jealous) I was at walmart and you see it everywhere, fat moms with brand new suvs, tons of crap in the cart and kids who dont listen. I keep myself slim and healthy and Im a good mom whose kid listens...Im jealous because Im starting to think that to have the nice mom things, you have to let yourself go and not care about hygiene, then your man will buy you a new vehicle and house...
2007-02-24 09:00:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am picking on fat women right now because it takes effort to stay slim...but it takes nothing to be fat, except a cart full of junk food...and they ALL cant have medical disorders!
2007-02-24 09:15:45 · update #1
Maybe not all fat women are like this, Im just talking about the ones who ARE.
2007-02-24 09:16:39 · update #2
IAM TALKING ABOUT THE FAT STAY HOME MOMS WHO DO NOTHING...NOT ONES WHO WORK, BUT THE ONES WHOSE HUSBANDS DO ALL THE WORK AND THEY DO NOTHING BUT SIT AROUND ALL DAY AND SMOKE AND WATCH TV. I KNOW WOMEN LIKE THIS!
2007-02-24 09:20:43 · update #3
A person's size or preferred clothing has nothing to do with how much money they make or how much money is available in their household. Even a slob may well work hard for what they have.
Why wait around for "your man" to buy you anything? If you want something, earn it yourself....it'll mean a LOT more that way.
2007-02-24 09:06:38 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you pissed off you have to work? I work 7 days a week and I'm not THIN I'm more so med to heavy. I do have a medical disorder and I'm 18 weeks pregnant to boot. Being fat doesn't make you a bad mom. Some kids act up no matter how good of a mom they have. I have good children thank god.
Im not on welfare, Im divorced and my husband doesnt pay a dime in support, I do it all and proud of it.
I have a new SUV and I own my home.
You know someday you may get sick and get fat...... then we will see if your attitude doesnt change
EDIT______ Make up your mind how old you are....... you could afford these things if your husband had a god job or you werent a stay at home mom....... If you dont like your life Change it. I read your other questions how did u go from 26 to 32 in 4 days PLZZZZZZZZ Get a life.
2007-02-24 10:50:29 · answer #2 · answered by tammer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i was a stay at home mom until last week, which i went back to work for myself, so i could get out of the house. i am a mother of 3, not over weight and drive a fairly new suv that my husband pays for. i like t shirts maybe not mickey mouse but when i go to the store i don't get dressed up. i feel i deserve it i take great care of my kids, clean the house and my husband does all the cooking. just b/c they choose to eat a little unhealthy you can't hate on them. by the way my husband is in the army too. that just means he works hard for what we have. i know what all of those men are making and maybe some ppl just know how to budget their money better than others. we have a nice home, nice vehicles, and are 3 children hurt for nothing, maybe you should take money management classes!
2007-02-24 12:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by kchase 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Okay but I think that you should have a bit more discretion for the women who are fat. You see fat people don't really appreciate themselves as much as others because they always have weight on their minds. So for someone like you to just come down on fat people its not nice. You aren't being nice and the first impression counts my first impression of you isn't nice...
Anyway to your question these women that you see they probably work hard for their husbands to do these things for them. Ever stop and think for a while that her husband loves her for who she is and not what she looks like as well as she probably works hard at being a mom and he loves her for growing up his kids or even having them.
My mom is not fat she looks damn good and my mom is getting old and my father loves her she was a stay at home mom. Yes my mom was a teacher but now she has resigned and my father buys her stuff still! You want to know why?
Because he loves her for who she is and not what she looks like!
You are shallow and I think that your head is not in the right place. You may think that you are a good mom but if you think like this what are you teaching your children or child. I think you should look over your judgment on fat mothers because even stay at home mothers they work hard taking that job full time.
I on the other hand can't be a stay home mom even though my husband has a really good job I won't stay home I love my job!
You need to check yourself!
2007-02-24 09:46:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what your talking about - my husband is in the Army and ALOT of Army wifes are fat and lazy as hell. I know of alot myself. And I wonder the same thing. Cause I work 40 hours a week and I don't drive a brand new SUV. I wish I did. No worry's girl - your not the only one who wonders why. My husband works hard and is in excellent shape as am I and together we have a total of 5 kids. I wish someone would give me the answer to this myself. All I can say is be proud of what you have and what you work hard for, that's what I do.
2007-02-24 12:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hmmm........Are you really jealous of what they have, or do you think that they do not deserve it because of how they look? If someone seemed more worthy by your standards of what they have (beautiful, well kept and thin, with three obedient children at her side) would it not bother you as much? Maybe you should look more at yourself, and realize that no matter what, you have a happy life, you are healthy and have beautiful children, I'm sure, and nothing (not even a brand new SUV) could disguise that.
2007-02-24 09:19:43 · answer #6 · answered by Sabrina H 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All women are not like this some are and I agree. Perhaps some women let themself go cause of stress out with the kids and little time for themselves and yet doing the best they can. I do agree that the kids and themsevles should come first before any new cars and or houses and fancy things in life. Some of these women do this to please their man more than the kids. I do clearly where you are coming from.
2007-02-24 09:14:21 · answer #7 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah i dont think thats true.... I woul not let myself go and i have 2 boys in cathloic school and our life is great... I have a brand new suv and brand new house that is way to much.... i never asked for things but they are nice to have... My house i say is to big for 4 people but my husbands loves to entertain people our friends we have the built swimming pool and life can get complicated thats for sure becuase sometimes even though we have nice stuff i feel like entetaining people is what my husbands loves the most so where does that leave me... being friendly to people that i sometimes dont feel like being friewndlyt to... keeping a smile on my face what iam lacking now is that proabaly my husbands loves his friends more then his family and that we are just a great show for him so tring feeling like that
2007-02-24 09:11:29 · answer #8 · answered by prettygirl new orleans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drive a hybrid and help save our environment. Also it will reduce our dependence on foreign oil. Don't be jealous of people who are stupid enough to spend all that money on an SUV that has to practicly park at a gas station. Don't be arrogant about your lack of fat either. Someday you might be the one trying to diet and you will see how hard it is to loose weight once it's there.
2007-02-24 09:13:59 · answer #9 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you find yourself being jealous? Material things are not what you're measured for. If you have a good hard working husband, you have a warm place to live, healthy kid, and you look as you say you do, I'd say you already have a good life. If the husband isn't in your life, then with your good looks it will happen.
2007-02-24 09:07:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋