I don't kno wut my mom will say. i had unprotected sex and i need 2 tell her i'm worried!
2007-02-24 08:50:02 · 24 answers · asked by nobody's kid 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Geez, you should go to church! You were not very smart for having unprotected sex. And the way I see it, the only reason you are telling her is because you think that you might be pregnant, but if you didn't you'd say it was none of her business. Just like every teenager who has unprotected sex goes running to mommy when they have a problem but wants them out of their life when they don't. I'm not trying to be mean, I am just making a point. Just come out and tell her, because if you are pregnant, then you need to get to a doctor. How old are you? I can't see how teens can have sex...I am almost 14 and am waiting until marriage.
2007-02-24 11:48:31 · answer #1 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I didnt have to tell my mom... she knew the diffrence is i used protection my mom was very understanding.. she works in a bar and so her boss let her bring me home some condoms... only they didnt exactly work they broke and i ended up pregnant anyway but when i told her that she freaked.... just be upfront and honest with her if she finds out from you it will be so much better than finding out from someone else Trust Me I Know!
2007-02-24 17:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by LoverGirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be open and honest with her. My mom found out anyways, I didn't have to tell her. Sure she was upset, but she got over it. Your mom will too. And make sure to be more careful next time. You have things other than pregnancy to worry about, STD's and AIDS are a lot worse than having a baby.
2007-02-24 16:53:39 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her straight out. Then go from there: listen to her advice and most important, follow it. She's had the years behind her to know about this. She should take you to a doctor to talk about your options and have him talk about the most reliable birth control possible for you. All of this starts and ends with the medical profession, believe it or not. It doesn't start with making out and end with a shacking up arrangement and a baby out of wedlock.
2007-02-28 11:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would have been happier if you would have told her before hand. My aunt always said that ifi wanted to have sex for me to tell her first so that she could get me what i needed. Just be open with her and maybe you should have gotten the morning after pill. Be open and tell her she will be happy you came to her sooner rather than later. NExt time protect urself.
2007-02-24 16:58:53 · answer #5 · answered by Sexylova49 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no easy way to tell your mom your not a virgin anymore.......you just have to sit her down and say mom i have something i need to talk to you about but before i tell you...you have to promise you wont get mad until im finished with what i have to say and that you are worried and could really use her advice.....then just come out and say it....i cant say she wont be mad or hurt......but she should know especially if you are worried good luck
2007-02-24 16:58:25 · answer #6 · answered by first time mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just sit your mom down and tell her that things happened and you know you shouldn't have done it but it happened. She is your mom and she was young once too. She might be disappointed but....she needs to know and you need to get checked to make sure you don't have a disease or pregnant. It will be all right. Please please....use protection after this IF you do it again.
2007-02-24 17:11:13 · answer #7 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her what happened. she will probably be upset but she will be even more upset if you try to keep it from her. i would not have sex anymore until i was 18 if i were you. doing this at a young age can get you into so much trouble and cause you so many problems. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-24 16:54:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
JUST DO IT. you will feel better and she needs to know whats going on in case you are pregnant and NEVER EVER HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX AGAIN!!!! SEX IS NOT WORTH DYING FOR
2007-02-24 16:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by dekitty1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I am going to be a mom here for a second.
Why would you have unprotected sex? Are you friggen nuts?!???
Why would you have sex? Obviously your young or you wouldn't be scared that you mom would freak out.
What have you learned? Don't do it ever again. Do you want HIV?
No dick is good enough to make you sick for the rest of your life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Just tell you mom!
2007-02-24 16:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by trinity082482 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋