I have been hearing rumers about my friend sleeping with my fella, they have both lied to me and i have just discoverd it is true, i feel so hurt and cheated and i don't know what to do!
Also my friend has just found out she is pregnant with twins and i feel i can't turn my back on her
What do i do, i am so upset and feel sick with hurt! someone please cheer me up xx
2007-02-24 08:35:33 · 47 answers · asked by red devil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Forget the 2 of them they are not worthy of you, you deserve better and you will get it eventually, it is worth waiting for believe me All the very best, go out and enjoy yourself
2007-02-24 08:46:21 · answer #1 · answered by Janet C 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Babe, there's only one way out of this one and it's out!!!
Are you actually saying that the girl you call friend is pregnant with possibly your boyfriend?
And even if it's from someone else, I don't understand why you feel that you have to stand by her? what do you think that you're some kind of martyr or something?
If you can truly let the past be, and never go over their deception, I'd say keep them both; and good for you.
But the way I see it, you're better off getting rid of the girlfriend.
Mistakes do happen. Fair enough.
So, maybe in time you can forgive her, or him.
But for now, you do need to get rid of one.
I wouldn't keep the girlfriend, even if I were to ditch my boyfriend.
You need time away from her definitely.
She's being pregnant is not your responsibility, it's hers. Time for her to learn to respect others.
Don't try and be a good girl, or good friend. You won't gain anything from it. xx
2007-02-24 09:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Drop them both,if she lied about this how do u know what else she lies about.I fell out with my best mate a year ago as i found out she was back stabbing me n slagging me off on more than one occasion,i had always stood by her and was gutted to realise what she was really like we had been mates 4 seven years.But to be honest now i have a whole new set of friends all of whom i know i can really trust and am the happiest i been in ages.
2007-02-24 10:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
turn your back on her she is not worth your support nor sympathy find yourself a new friend and get back out there and have fun life is too short to dwell go an treat yourself to a new outfit and go out meet a new fella an show them all your better than that you don't have to share nobody they to are welcome to each other he will cheat on the next girl so in a funny sort of way she has done you a favour at least you know what he is like and she is just a dirty cow and is not worthy of your friendship. be strong babe tell them all to do one. x
2007-02-24 09:01:57 · answer #4 · answered by lou. c. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since they both lied to you, you should let them know that it hurts more to be lied to than be told the truth. your fella is probly in a stage of his life wher he is still looking for a new sexual experiment, and you need to know from him if you can deliver this to him or not. That is if you decide to stay with him, considering he did cheat and not come clean with approached. see if he's sincere and if he's not really a sincere person let him know he can get sex from somewhere else. See what his response is then. In terms of your friend, hopefully those are not his kids. If its a really close friend think if there has been anything she has done to wrong you in the past. Does she really care? Let her know her lying let you down. If you still feel strong for her, let her know no man can come between u and her, but her coming between u and the man is her trying to change your life and future,and hopefully in the future you want have to change your friendship.
2007-02-24 08:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Rose Gold 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be grateful, be very grateful that you have had such a lucky escape - if he could sleep with your friend and leave her pregnant then you are well rid of him.
Do what your conscience tells you over your friend. Personally I wouldn't give her the time of day. She knew she was risking your friendship when she had sex with your boyfriend.
You sound a like a kind, caring person and deserve to be with someone who respects that and not plays you for a mug.
Good luck.
2007-02-24 08:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by sheevee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least you found out now. Find solice in the fact that you found out early and can now fix your situation. This wont make you feel better but what they did is the worst thing you could ever do to someone and I hope you dont have anything to do with either of them ever again.
2007-02-24 08:39:35 · answer #7 · answered by brandon42032 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
I wouldn't take your fella back no matter how sorry he is if he can do it once then he can do it again, once a cheater always a cheater. As for your so called "friend" That's her fault that she got pregnant why should you be there for her she can't be there for you cos shes the one that went behind your back with your fella.
2007-02-24 09:28:29 · answer #8 · answered by l_blackrose1985 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you feel you cant turn your back on her? hello- she obviously didnt give a crap for you when she was sleeping with your man. i would get rid of all of them, they are not your friends. you shouldnt feel bad for them, you on the other hand will have some hurt feelings but you had your heart broken it sounds. people like that though should be easy to get over. at least your not the one pregnant i guess so you have something in your favor.
2007-02-24 08:40:09 · answer #9 · answered by loveboatcaptain 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get both of them out of your life just think will he ever know if the twins are his or not and ha ha if so he has got his hands full serves him right
2007-02-24 09:24:08 · answer #10 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋