You should marry who you are in love with. Your parents aren't the ones who have to live with him, sleep with him or have children with him, therefore they should not be the ones choosing your mate. You probably should talk to your parents, tell them how you feel and ask for their blessing. Then if they don't give you their blessing tell them you are sorry they feel that way but that you have to follow your heart and marry him anyway. Good luck with that. If you are muslim and your future mate is of another religion then you two probably should go through pre-marriage counseling and make sure you can both agree on how you will handle religious holidays together and with family and also you should definately talk about how you will raise your chilldren!
2007-02-24 08:27:46
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answered by StrawberryShortcake 3
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If you are a Muslim girl then it is best if you marry a Muslim boy and one your parents approve of. There is so much goes on after marriage and you need the support of your family. For instance, if your husband treats you badly who will call him to order? In a Muslim family, the family will sort it out, you won't be left to struggle alone like non-Muslim girls. And what about the day-to-day practicalities, for instance who will read prayers in the house? What will happen when your children want to marry? Good Luck.
2007-02-24 19:31:18
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answered by DIANNE M 3
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It depends upon whether you care if you ever see your family again. If you marry anyone without your parents' approval, you might make them so angry they won't speak to you for years and years, if ever. Only you know how angry they might be. Also, your boyfriend is probably Hindu. Will this cause problems when you have children? I married a man who is not my religion, but our parents were told ahead of time. They were angry for awhile, but once the babies were born, they came around. We are all happy now. But this is not always the case. Be careful and get some counsel before you do something stupid, okay?
2007-02-24 17:03:59
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answered by Wiser1 6
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i think that there is nothing wrong with a muslim girl marrying a an indian boy aslong as He Also is A Muslim Aswell.
2007-02-24 16:41:25
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answered by Miss J 3
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That is a difficult question for you to grapple with. Think about these questions: If you are committed to your faith, wouldn't you want to raise your children to share your beliefs? How would you feel if your husband told your children he believed your religion to be false? I am Christian & would never have married someone who was not Christian for the exact reasons above. I cannot tell you to do something I would never do.
2007-02-24 16:27:59
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answered by Tom's Mom 4
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That's a real tough one..my husband is muslim and i am not..And I know his parents do not agree with our marriage at all...When we first got married they wouldn't even talk to him..They now talk to him but still do not accept our marriage..So you really need to think about it!! Good luck and best wishes..
2007-02-24 16:27:04
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answered by over worked 2
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well if you are westerner then the answer is no. if your from. india, which is where most hindu's are from. still no,, and as you never said what his religion was, and if he his muslim,, then it is still no.. i think this is a trick question. and if not, get you parents permission,, it is best all round
2007-02-24 16:44:49
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answered by valda54 5
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That is a tough question that needs a tough answer. Do you think you are mature enough to get married if you cannot figure this out for yourself?
2007-02-24 16:31:01
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answered by HuniBuniBee 3
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Nationality should not be an issue, and since it's YOU getting married - not the parents - screw what they think! Make your own decisions, it is YOUR LIFE after all.
2007-02-24 16:26:17
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answered by barefoot_always 5
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Depends on various things. Most importantly where you live, in some places doing this could get you murdered by your own family. Can you take your families rejection if they let you live? What about his family, how will they react. Think about it long and hard.
2007-02-24 16:25:28
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answered by CHELLE BELLE 5
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