My wife and I have been discussing in relationships who usually cums first... with us she usually does... and I just wondered if this is the norm among couples, or are we special? :)
Thanks... please no sarcastic answers.
2007-02-24 08:19:32 · 27 answers · asked by k_atama 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
With practice, you can both get there at the same time - that's the ideal.
2007-02-24 08:23:18 · answer #1 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually depends on who had the most to drink. Seriously, sometimes it's me and sometimes its my wife. I recently developed a multiple type experience that can last for a minute or so. I know that doesn't sound like a long time but trust me...
My wife and I seem to be getting better at it, even after 19 years.
2007-02-24 08:28:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's very sweet that you make sure your wife is happy first. I think most of the time men don't take the time to make sure there partner is satisfied.I mean once the man is done it's a rap,but if a woman is satisfied first there's no limit to the fun that can still be had.So i think most of the time men *** first,not all the time just most of the time.
2007-02-24 08:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely it's the norm. Women are sensual creature who anticipate the experience and become excited just by the thought. Men are more biological reacting to the actual act in itself.
2007-02-24 08:26:19 · answer #4 · answered by Noree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is completely normal if the woman cums first.
So, sorry to say, you guys aren't special. Haha.
2007-02-24 08:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by JLW74033 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In normal couples,if both are excited women usually come first.That is the case with us.But when its one-sided usually men come first.
2007-02-24 09:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife does first too but this is because I make sure thats what happenes. If it was straigth good old boom bang then it would be me 95% of the time.
2007-02-24 08:22:16 · answer #7 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's the mans place to make sure the lady is satisfied before he doe's the deed.Always the lady first unless she's doing the giving.
2007-02-24 08:32:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not "special". I have been married four times and always made my woman climax first. I have always felt that if she came first then I could have my way with her and feel ok about it. I think it is an Ego thing with me also.
2007-02-24 08:29:52 · answer #9 · answered by TMAC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, typically the women, but on a healthy level. men are brought up being taught to cater to women. i mean think about it, opening the door, and standing up when women get up at the table, things like that, but i think it eventually evens out to where everyone gets what they want
2007-02-24 08:24:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's usual for the guy to finish first, if she is getting her first one before you do, good for you guys!!! The ability to pull multiples is one of the perks of being female ;-)
2007-02-24 08:22:37 · answer #11 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋