This girl is living with my family. We are helping her get on her feet as she has had a lot of problems in the past. However, I have been having insecurities lately. I thought she might have the hots for my hubby... last week we talked about thongs. While I was at work she was talking to my hubby and asked him if he would help her out to get some undies cuz she only had a couple pair. Do you think I should be upset about this? I trust that my hubby wouldn't do anything but I just feel it's a little weird.
2007-02-24 07:06:50 · 11 answers · asked by lrybio2006 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would tell her that it is not a wise choice to ask your husband about her panties . That you are the women and she should be asking you not him . Tell her you will not have her asking him these questions .
2007-02-24 07:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is weird. Question: Why didn't she wait for you to get home or wait until you were off from work and ask you to help her get some panties? Why did she ask him? Did she ask you before and you were too busy so she asked him? Think about this for a second. I would be weird and she what she would do next. I would not be upset, per sey, but, I would start wondering why that red flag that just appeared in your view is starting to wave slowly. If she does something like this-again-or, do something that starts making that red flag wave uncontrollably, then,. it's time that she be on her own.
2007-02-24 15:13:56 · answer #2 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE CAREFUL!!!!!!!!
Sometimes when you help people out they end up taking your kindness for weakness.
You should have a conversation with her regarding this matter and let her know you feel it's inappropriate for her to be asking your husband about anything personal if she needs help she should be asking you as you are another woman and would know better.
To me she asked your husband for a reason and it doesn't sound very innocent to me. Like I said before BE CAREFUL!!!!
2007-02-24 15:18:44 · answer #3 · answered by girlie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't u ask her to go away? I don't like this kind of people who create problems in someones life. I think she has some thing on her mind. Gather some guts and ask her to leave..or find some way to make her leave....Don't delay
2007-02-24 15:22:31 · answer #4 · answered by A.aziz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should be upset i mean why would she go to a guy for thong advice if she wanted advice for womens underwear she should have gone to a women shes probably just trying to be sexual and stuff sooo she should've gone 2 u!
2007-02-24 15:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw her out or else you will be on Jerry Springer in the near future. Trust your instincts.
LOLOLOLOL over above. Perhaps he would only be so lucky!
2007-02-24 15:11:40 · answer #6 · answered by Alphonse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His only goal is to get the two of you in the same bed and blow out her backdoor O-ring while you stand ready for the $$$ shot. Good times!!!
2007-02-24 15:11:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's asking your husband to help her get underware...get her out of your house!! There is no way I don't care who she was..would some other girl ask my husband to help her get some underware..If she needed them that bad why didn't she ask you??? You need to get her out before you start having problems of your own..1st rule of marriage NEVER bring another women into your house...
2007-02-24 15:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by over worked 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is out of line to ask your hubby, she shoud have asked you
2007-02-24 15:12:32 · answer #9 · answered by ladyoh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That girl needs to go and the sooner the better. If it was me, I'd tell her just that.
2007-02-24 15:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋