I've never heard of the "past card" until I asked some questions here.
So apparently its OK for a woman to sleep around because she can use the "past card" to excuse promiscous behaviour.
Can I get a "present" and "future" card so I can screw around as well? That would be terrific.
2007-02-24 07:05:59 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, it's never cool for ANYONE to be promiscuous. It's pathetic and immature.
2007-02-24 07:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Promiscuity is a problem today that is greatly influenced and exulted by the media. There’s nothing else to say for it, except that it is wrong and disgusting; there’s no excuse for it either. Today we try to come up with all sorts of ways to excuse behavior we know to be wrong, but this does not change the fact that they are still wrong. Use any type of card you wish; there is no excuse for the action of ‘screwing around’.
2007-02-24 07:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by Tasha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for everyone but it's been my observation that anyone who will sleep around once will in all likelihood do it again.
People always seem surprised when their current spouse cheats on them after they cheated with their current spouse to get them. DUH???
I guess I just always figured vows actually mean something. Now if the man or woman is single, well I guess that's a little different. But still, if you were interested in a serious relationship with a person why would you be interested in someone who can't stay out of other people's beds?
2007-02-24 07:15:31 · answer #3 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not...its not cool for guy or girl. If i found out a girl i dated had that kind of past.....im not so sure i could stay...... Sex is good and safe...in a commited relationship. Outside of that I feel it somehow cheapens someone in my eyes. There are exceptions but I have never ran into any of them. Just my opinion, dont take offense. Do what you want but be careful.. a bad rep, unwanted preg, std is not worth a relatively small part of a persons life.
2007-02-24 07:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by def 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This day in age, I dont think its cool for either gender to be promiscuous, with AIDS and such. I do think that women are judged a bit more harsher than men are when it comes to the number of partners they have had and I dont agree with that. I can tell you that I have had more partners than my husband (before marriage), but I will never tell him. That is on a need to know basis, and he dont need to know. If you dont want to be judged or have to use the "past card" then prefer to decline comment on that question. It works for me.
2007-02-24 07:10:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its NOT COOL for woman to b a get around but at some point in most peoples life they go through this stage Get over it!!! after they do this they r usually are a very good mate unless of course they never sewed thier oats!!
2007-02-24 07:25:01 · answer #6 · answered by harlot j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not cool for a man or a woman to be promiscuous. You swap body fluids and cells with everyone you kiss or have sexual contact with. Think about it, pretty disgusting and not healthy.
2007-02-24 07:09:30 · answer #7 · answered by StormyC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not cool for anyone to be promiscuous. People should respect their bodies and sexuality, without making it a cheap tool for carnal pleasures.
Aim higher!
2007-02-24 07:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by ...... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think it is lady like for women to screw around so much after all your body is your temple
2007-02-24 07:16:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think itz cool when a lady actz like a lady and not a slut.. unfortunately, itz too rare nowadayz
2007-02-24 07:08:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋