girls what technics u use to keep your guy to stay for longer period in sex?

Answer 1

lesbian here

Answer 2

Here are ten tips I know of:

1) Have him orgasm beforehand first. That gets rid of the imminence of an impending orgasm that's been waiting forever, so that when he's ready to go again, things won't be so 'under pressure', waiting to explode, and he can take a more leisurely pace and stay longer.

2) Decrease his sensitivity by wearing two condoms, or a very thick condom. The less sensation he can feel, the slower he'll be to get to orgasm.

3) Similarly, decrease his sensitivity with a numbing cream. There are lots of good products out there that when applied to the genitals, numb them slightly so that he can last longer; do some research at a good online sex store and order the one that looks the most promising. Just a few things to remember, though: make sure you get a kind that is condom-friendly and won't break down your condoms, and always use with condoms, i.e. he applies the cream to his erection, and then puts on a condom- that way he won't get the cream on you, which would numb you (not good!).

4) Purchase him a good-quality c*ck ring. A stretchy ring that fits at the base of the penis, it helps hold blood in the penis (keeping it hard), helps delay ejaculation, and should help him last longer.

5) Similarly, when he indicates that he's near orgasm, you or him can try gripping very tightly at the base of his penis. While somewhat dangerous- the extra touch might send him over the edge- a firm grip there might calm his imminence (the same way a c*ck ring works). Try it.

6) At some point during sex, you might try tugging down his testicles, which will wind back the clock on his orgasm, so to speak, and give you more time.

7) Try the stop-and-go method, which is basically for you to take turns on one another. As soon as he starts to get close, you switch off, and he can work with his mouth or hands to pleasure you until he's safe to go again, then more on him, and back and forth like that until you're both ready to climax.

8) Encourage him to practice male kegel exercises (look it up online). They'll strengthen his genital muscles and eventually help him in being able to have more control over himself.

9) Have him practice self-control methods on his own. How he does this is up to him, but basically, he can masturbate and bring himself very close to climax, and then try different mental strategies to ward it off- picturing grandma on the toilet seat or something like that, something completely non-sexy, to help him calm it down a little bit.

10) And lastly, remember that even if he comes pretty quickly, that's no excuse for sex between you to stop. He still has a mouth and hands, doesn't he? Better yet- stock a dildo or a strap-on in the bedside drawer that he can employ if he climaxes too soon and you don't want to wait for him to revive.

Hope that helps!

Answer 3

Girls should not be having sex first of all. Women shoudl be.


Have your man masturbate before having sex. This way he will lost longer when you have sex.

Or you can just get him off really quick at first manually or orally. Then he should take longer to have an orgasm the next time.


Work with ihm on holding back. Bring him close to orgasm and then back off. This will take communication and honesty, but it will enhance your sex life.

Answer 4

This is probably not the best section to ask girls how they please their guys.....just thinking out loud here.

Answer 5

is this a gay or lesbian cuz question cuz it doesnt sound like one to me