do you get bored looking at the same wife everyday?

Question

Just trying to understand human psychology

Answer 1

+ If you are bored in the relationship chances are She is too!
Try spicing things up a bit. Hang out with friends and other family members, Get out of the house and have some fun together. Go on a vacation, Even if it's not far from where you live.
Think about what brought you two together in the first place.
If you start thinking about how it was in the beginning try to do some of the things you both liked to do together.

I hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 2

Well, being a woman I'll flip it around and say YES, it's possible to get bored looking at the same man every day. But I love him, have no intention of acting on those feelings other than to try and spice things up. First, by trying to make myself more interesting. I'm sure that if I'm bored, he probably is too! So I might take an interest in something I know he is interested in, but hasn't caught my fancy up til then. That gives us something in common to get excited about again (besides sex), which inevitably brings us closer together and banishes the boredom.

A few times I've tried to make him more interesting, by trying to intentionally draw his interest into something I'm doing/reading/learning, but that one's kind of hit or miss, depending on his actual interest. This seems to work out better when the attempt originates within rather than without.

Being a bit bored with the same person, or feeling like our relationship is in a bit of a rut, bears little testament to how little or how much love is shared, IMO. Human beings are wired with a lot of mixed signals-- desire for stability vs. desire for excitement; romance with one person, loyal and true til death do they part, coupled with a biological urge to procreate with every other pretty face. I don't find it odd or disturbing or telling at all that people should get tired of the person they're with after a time. What you do, or don't do, about it is what has the potential to help or hurt the relationship.

Answer 3

Sure. I get bored looking at the same old pictures, same old 4 walls, same old stereo, same old 32" TV, same old computer monitor. However, what I seem to not be bored of is habit. Making love to the same woman time after time being able to trust she will be there and not complicated or overly troublesome or problematic and not with like breaking in new wives and or girl friends. Which you know is fun till the whole cycle is once again repeated if boredom is your issue.

However, In saying that I've decided to stay single and been seeing the same gal for 12 years.

Answer 4

you shoudn't
because that's the wife you like bcause of her
you have chosen her so you have to be with her
other wise you didn't have to get married
you just could have friends and that was enough


if you have a wife which you both feel each other and love each other because of yourselves
not cuz o being pretty or handsome

if you get bored it means you don't love your wife
you just had a quick love(fake)
maybe for beauty (there are always prettier than your wife so marrying to a woman for beauty is just being a loser)


having a wife gives you a constant life

you just don't hang around every pretty girl you see

Answer 5

i dont have a wife. but i can imagine that happening if you don't really love the person or treasure them...it may sound cheesy but its true. im not talking about romantic love (bcos that disappears quite fast) bt about the kind of love you feel for family and friends where you dont expect anything from them. if you love your wife you won't get bored by looking at her. cos i dont get bored of looking at my family or my friends or my cat. but yeah you might get bored of having sex with her!

Answer 6

Not at all. I may get mad at her ways or tired of her crap, but never bored looking at her or making love to her.

Answer 7

Ah, thank god my husband is a seaman!