OK so recently my best friend has told me that she has liked me for some time and wants to be more than just friends. We have been through this before, but for a while we didn't talk to each other. I told her that I didn't feel the same way and that we needed to talk face to face. Should I tell her that I'm gay? and if so how to I go about doing this? I hoping that she won't hate me, and I honestly think that she deserves someone better to be with.
2007-02-24 06:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
To clear up some confusion, yes, I am gay.
2007-02-24 07:10:04 · update #1
you should tell what you think
being a gay is much better for her than not loving her as a real man
she wont hate you maybe she will be sorry
but no hatred feelings
2007-02-24 06:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still on the fence about gay people.But I will say this.You should be honest with her.She does deserve your honestly. When u tell her start out with something easy. Like remember when u thought this guy was cute and so did I. Something to give her the idea before u just come out and say it.You don't want to shock her. Good luck
2007-02-24 07:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not say is you actually are gay or not. if you are then tell her, if not please do lie to her.
as far as her deserving someone better love does not care about who deserves what. you can not force someone to love you anymore than you can force someone not to.
just be honest with her. all relationships go through phases, and if you lose the frienship over this at least you are being true to both of you
2007-02-24 06:57:01 · answer #3 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. She will appreciate you more because you respected her enough to do so. And if the friendship is strong enough it will hold if not the you have to ask your self was she truly your friend or was it fake. Good luck to you.
2007-02-24 07:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't do that...just say that you think she deserves better...really it hurts when someone you really love says their gay...
2007-02-24 06:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lie to her......just tell her the truth......and let her know if anything changes between you and her it's because of her.........
2007-02-24 07:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tink Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋