If your husband made you and your child move back in with your parents for awhile for whatever reason and said that you could move back later on, would you? I am just curious to see how many people would and would not.
2007-02-24 06:40:33 · 13 answers · asked by love my life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the reasons he stated were since we don't hardly see each other anyway (he works nights and weekends, I work 40 hours a week) and to save us money
2007-02-24 06:49:18 · update #1
Wow! I don't know I would have to consider why I had to move back to my parents house. I guess I would also have to consider how I would feel the rest of my life ( If I did move back with him)
If i didn't agree to moving out in the first place ,then I probably would not want to go back just because he said I could!
2007-02-24 06:48:12 · answer #1 · answered by Zakia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, that exact thing happen to me a few years ago with my ex husband. I had to move in with my-parents a few weeks later I moved in with a high school friend and picked up the pieces then a few weeks later he called me while I was at work and told me " I have good news. You can come home now. I told him just because he was ready does not mean I am. Well, what I found out was he was trying out a relationship with another women. If I had gone back I know that it would not have worked. I think you should find out what is going on with your husband. The work hours sounds like just a excuse to get you out. Good luck. Please think all of this through and don't let him treat you like dirt. You deserve better.
2007-02-24 07:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably not. You can't just ignore the issue by kicking someone out for a while. It needs to be talked about and resolved. If that doesn't happen, then once you move back in the same problems are still there. You don't want to keep putting a kid through that!
2007-02-24 06:53:56 · answer #3 · answered by Joy M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where does the money saving come in? Is he still living in your home, if so, aren't the expenses still going on? If my husband asked me to leave our home for reasons other that he was deployed, I don't think I would come back. I would make special arrangements for our children in the case of illness, but that's it.
2007-02-24 07:27:38 · answer #4 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the reason, where is he going? Can he afford all the bills without you? Is he messing around?
2007-02-24 07:03:15 · answer #5 · answered by Laurie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Need to know the reason.
2007-02-24 06:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't have left in the first place, he would have had to move out.
2007-02-24 06:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nooooooooooo.....unless our lives were in danger for some reason, if he made me move out, I would not be going back
2007-02-24 06:46:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and no, depends upon the reasons if its a genuine or not
2007-02-24 06:51:27 · answer #9 · answered by west 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOULD NOT! If he wanted to get rid of me, and his child, I'd make sure I never showed him my face again.
2007-02-24 06:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋