actually im a tennis player and im in love with another tennis player.he s with me at the same training schedules at the same club but the big problem is that im soooooooooo shy and he doesnt seem to recognize me at all.wht shall i do to be attractive to him?
2007-02-24 06:05:25 · 12 answers · asked by Helda. 1 in Sports ➔ Tennis
Just walk up and talk to him. "Hey, you have good form". Start a conversation ;)
2007-02-24 06:50:09 · answer #1 · answered by C L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey i have been playing jv because seventh grade and varsity because 9th. interior the starting up youthful ones were like look at those youthful ones playing tennis they're wealthy or regardless of different stereotypes they're retarded they do no longer comprehend the thanks to play and they do no longer comprehend what they're speaking about. In our college our tennis is the only which receives extra wins than the different interest in females and boys leagues. no longer some thing is gay about tennis. in truth, extra human beings watch the pro mens sport than the womens. No interest is gay until eventually it really is gay sex. also, as on your practices, once you've a reliable coach they'd run some drills like ball feeds and extremely few swings. once you've a nasty coach that would not help you do some thing you'd be hitting with your teammates. I absolutely have a nasty coach yet a reliable crew haha so its kinda humorous. also the coach will coach you to play a better sport and fix flaws on your strokes
2016-12-04 21:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next match he plays, make sure your sitting on the side (with a friend even) and cheer just for him.
When he comes of the court it's easy just to ask him how did the match go. Or compliment him on his victory or say you feel sorry that he lost.
Or you can then say he has a good forehand or backhand or serve or whatever and you should get together sometime so he can give you a few tips how to hit that shot as good as he does.
Or tease him and say you saw how many serves he missed and he should come to you for a few lessons...(don't use the last one if he LOST the match!)
Good luck!
2007-02-24 08:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by backhand-smash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think that the best way would have to be, hit a tennis ball over to him on purpose and go up to him and say,"Oh I am sorry it was a accident".Then you just ask him questions like for an example,"How long have you been playing tennis?"
~Kristina~
2007-02-24 07:22:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhhh this is so much like me last summer!!
i really liked this kid on my tennis team but I'm super shy.
I finally realized that there were so many ways to get his attention.
I went out and got some really cute white skirts with colored spandex. always good because they will be staring at ur butt! ;) haha
then i got some cute tennis tops that showed off my good points.
I started to show up at my tennis club a lot. weather it was to play tennis or work out at the gym. I hoped to see him there. It helped a lot because he was there a lot too, so he couldnt help but have to notice me. so far i didnt even have to talk wiht him. i was stil really shy
with going to tennis more often i got better, wich i hoped must have gotten his attention.
But he still wasnt approaching me.
the only way to get him to like me, i realized, was to acctually go up to him and talk to him. First i casually asked him questions, liek how his match went and in the gym i even asked him to help me on ajusting this one machine.
all this time i was giving him hopeful and flirty glances and little smiles.
He started to tlak to me more and i started to feel more confortable. It was amazing that he would feel confortable enough to approach me now.
He later became and still is, my serious boyfriend and the love of my life. I told him about how much i liked him all durring the summer and he was like no way i liked you too, i was just too intimidated to tlak to you. why didnt you talk to me sooner?
so the cute outfits and getting him to see you more often by going to your club more will give you the confidence you need to talk to him. But the majority of the courage comes from inside you. Being shy is such an aweful hurdle, but i know you can get over it!!
2007-02-24 10:44:58 · answer #5 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u play tennis wit him then u can maybe start to talk about maria sharipova an how hot she looks ... and blabla and tell him that u wish u cud play more like she does .. and stuff . so he will talk to u back .. and stuff get hotter and hotter .. lol
good luck .
2007-02-24 06:19:50 · answer #6 · answered by josh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is really hot when a girl tennis player wears a skirt.(If you don't already). You will really stick out.(in a very very good way).
2007-02-24 08:28:13 · answer #7 · answered by wakesttr2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys love to talk about themselves or sports. Ask him about himself or ask him if he could show you some tennis strokes.
2007-02-25 12:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by hofertennis@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...one...any guy would love to even think a girl playing tennis with him liked him...so...play with him..ask him to hit...try and play with him a lot...if u do that..he'll notice u a lot...and with that ull get to talk to him a lot..and plus if u beat him...he'll be like woah...in a real good way
2007-02-25 14:26:52 · answer #9 · answered by shvee21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make friends...then start to play tennis with him and hang out with him...after that, he might start to be in to you.
2007-02-24 06:14:59 · answer #10 · answered by Shayla D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man I wish I had a girl like you.
One day show up and be like
"My partner didn't show up can I play with you."
Something like that.
Make friends and try to set up another play date.
Build off that.
2007-02-24 13:10:57 · answer #11 · answered by Ohms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋