2007-02-24 06:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by Jaques S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
"Alone, and miserable", is a CHOICE you have made, and continue to make every day. You don't have to be either, unless you CHOOSE to be. Get out, and get among people. There's a beautiful person out there waiting for you to appear! Don't stay home, alone, and miserable!!!! Go meet them.
2007-02-24 06:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your self confidence. You are hiding in your computer and not out doing things with real people. This is saturday how much time are you spending on here? Get out and do things you enjoy and meet people there. Then you will have friends that you have something in common with. Look at your other questions and get out there and learn to be happy with yourself. If your friends pick at you all the time it is time to stay away from them and get into a different group. It is up to you to make the change.
2007-02-24 14:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by ronnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people feel the same way, you are definately not alone. Are you depressed? Did something bad happen? You should talk to your friends or family members or someone you can trust. I am sorry you feel so down but do cheer up, nothing is permanent, maybe you will find someone or have something nice happen to you soon.
2007-02-24 14:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by Carrine G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello friend.
i dont know why you are alone, but you can get out of your misery if you try.
1. dont worry, the whole world is suffering in their own way. we have to learn a "lesson" from evreything, even our suffering and move on.pls read MANY LIVES MANY MASTERS by dr brian weiss. it will answer most of ur questions.
2. pls do some mind relaxing activities like yoga, reiki, meditation etc. it will soothe and calm you. life is not just about being with the rite partner, it has a much deeper meaning.
3. pls try to log on to www.sahajayoga.org and click on EXPERIENCE IT NOW.
4. make a list of things you want in life, set a definite GOAL for urself, then write how you will achieve it in 6 months, break it down to 3 months, then to a week....grab ur happiness, its out there, waiting for you...
pls do listen. everyday i spend hours on yahoo answers, telling people all this, hey! what do u think, its to get measly two points? i am trying to help you, showing you an anchor, dont try to kick ur own boat, listen to me, my friend...god be with you.
2007-02-24 14:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alone and miserable is a choice you make. If you are not happy - get out and start making changes. Take up a hobby, join a group. Volunteer. There are ways to make a difference out there. Find yours.
2007-02-24 14:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by greyrider 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off the computer and go to your nearest community center and see if you can volunteer. Keep looking for a volunteer job at a hospital, county volunteer bureau, pet shelter, etc.
2007-02-24 14:05:37 · answer #6 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you can't always be alone you have to have friends and family did you just get out of a long term relationship? if you want to find someone then just go out with friends remeber you may not be having a sexual relationship but that doesn't mean you are not loved
2007-02-24 14:04:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You choose to be alone and miserable . Do not stand for it and take back what you want for yourself . Wake up and change your ways . Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-24 14:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me see maybe if you stop feeling sorry for yourself you wouldnt feel so alone and miserable.
2007-02-24 16:03:45 · answer #9 · answered by Frenchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe people are picking up on that feeling of misery...it is a turn off.
2007-02-24 14:04:22 · answer #10 · answered by tara b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋