why are people so phony? how do they smile at you and then talk bad about you?

Question

I find it very hard to find people who are not phony.I mean i am nice to people i dont care for but im not phony.i dont lead them to think i am there friend and then stab them in the back.where do you find normal people?i hate not being able to trust anyone.thanks=[

Answer 1

I know exactly what you mean. It's frustrating not being able to find anyone just NORMAL. I always feel like it's a giant waste of time. It's like, if you don't want to be jsut cool friends, then don't., you know?
You're not alone, hang in there. I'm confident that normal exists somewhere, (we) just havn't found it yet.lol

Answer 2

You can find normal people anywhere and everywere. You can't tell right away weather a person is phony while looking at them, becuase that would be making an assumption about people. There are alot of fake people in the world who are very cruel, and rude. And those cruel, rude people put on a smile on their face becuase its just an act. I wonder the same thing too. I wonder why can't people just be cool with others. But I guess things don't work out right. So be careful of people, and look at there actions. And that will help you define their personality.
the fake people who walk up and smile at you, smile becuase they have nothing else to do or say. You have no idea what thier planning to do, or what they want from you. Well, thats what I gotta say, hope my advice workded.Tootles .