As a male and deeply involved with a lady in a relationship, who i plan to marry very soon ,I would like to ask this question.
Please check my past questions and tell me is it a rant ,whine,female bashing? or is this just an effort to find out how best the good guys can say to the modern woman "Hey not all guys are bad and some really love you and would like to grow old with you"
Dont club us with the rest because beleive me when god created women he gave the greatest gift to man.
That is all i have to say i'am a military man(served with special forces in India in for 5 yrs) who fights for democracy,equality and soon to be a husband.
My wife is an executve who earns double what i earn yet she chose to marry me and i still dont understand why because she could have married any guy earning millions.
woman are you like mother earth so vast that it is impossible to undertsnd you????
I sure as hell know it certainly is the happiest moment to love you and claim you .
2007-02-24 05:55:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
I, too, am a great admirer of women, not just for their beauty. They continue to amaze and dazzle me. I think it is totally natural to be this attracted to them. Men must control, however, how this attraction plays out. Such fascination could lead to bad consequences if not kept in proper perspective.
2007-02-24 06:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Yowdy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When a man finds the right woman to marry love, honor and cherish, that is a good thing. In that light to find the wrong woman and marry her can been utter hell on earth.
One needs to be careful. There are other aspects that needs to be consider. You did not mention, but there could be some jealousy towards the woman you worship if she were to look or communicate with another man, when nothing is even there to be concerned about.
A husband and wife is to be submitted to each other.
"The female is the most beautiful creature on this planet" and to enjoy that is not wrong, that is only in admiring her beauty and for what she is.
But rest assured, sadly, all women do not fall in that category
as the women can a test the same to men as well.
2007-02-24 14:35:41 · answer #2 · answered by smially 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women deserve all the respect in the world or course. But why are there so many men on this forum who bow down to them and worship them, I don't know if a woman wants a man like that, even though women seem to love to be admired. Stop putting women on pedestals, because there are already enough who have let this get to their head, and act superior. Do you not have any pride and respect for yourself? Women are wonderful, but they aren't immortal goddesses, we should look at women as equals; therefore, on the same level not above us.
2007-02-24 14:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by Brennan Huff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman I would say no, generally, it's wonderful to be loved and wanted.
However, I did as you ask and read some previous questions and I actually have to say your questions, culminating in this one are quite scary.
You seem to have some unhealthy obsession with trying to "work out" what women are about, but the fact is we are all different, as are all men, and we all want and need different things at different times of our lives.
If you were my partner I would probably be tearing my hair out by now, as I doubt you leave much room for manoeuvre in your fiancees life. The fact that you say "claim" is pretty intimidating.
Yes, we are so vast that it is impossible to understand us, but so are men.
I think first of all you need to work on your own abilities to achieve some level of self confidence that will make you think you are worthy of a relationship. What she earns is totally irrelevant.
I saw your previous question about why it's all about money these days, well it's not, it's much less about having to have a man who can support you than it is about having a man who can love and respect you. Women have the ability these days to be financially independent, unlike years ago when women were considered lesser beings and were not allowed to have their own money.
If your fiancee loves you then she loves you, regardless of your income, and the fact that she has enough money of her own means she is free to love you for who you are, without having to worry about whether or not you could both support children/house etc.
Respect is the key word here, not worship. If my partner worshipped me I'd enjoy for all of about 5 minutes before slapping him! I don't want a door mat, I want an equal, and sometimes I even want someone stronger than me, to protect me.
Calm down and just enjoy life :)
CG.
2007-02-24 14:22:18 · answer #4 · answered by cymraesgwyllt 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound like you are very confident, especially if you don't feel like you are good enough for her. Also, this worshiping of your wife is not the best way to go. A relationship should be of co-equals, not one person who is completely dominate. You may want to stand up for yourself and be treated the way you deserve to.
Remember, women are just people like you and me. There is nothing inherently special about women.
2007-02-24 14:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
how do I have to answer this to make you and others stop asking it and equally nutty questions? Tell me if you would, because that cessation would be the most beautiful thing on Yahoo answers. At least if you took the nut-kicking freaks along, too.
2007-02-24 19:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I appreciate women and respect women, but not in this nature. I'm not into the whole submissive-asskissing thing. Women aren't goddesses, they're mortal, mistake-prone beings like you and I. I think men and women should be respected and appreciated equally.
2007-02-24 14:00:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a good relationship stick with it!!
2007-02-24 14:23:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋