ok so i have this friend of mine that we used to be really close and then this year she became boy crazy and started to not call me as much. i feel like i am trying to keep are friendship going more then her and i dont want to lose her as a friend. she always goes to me for help but never helps me when i ask her something. helpp?????
2007-02-24 05:22:44 · 9 answers · asked by shy gir..cw 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you are her friend, but she is not being your friend
Point this out to her and if she doesn't see it and fix it then stop being her friend. Treat her the same way she does you and then maybe she will see it and fix it, and if that doesn't work move on all together and have nothing to do with her. Good luck.
2007-02-24 05:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by HereIAm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the above facts are true, this is not a friend. Friends are there for each other when needed...not part time and not one sided. Stop trying to keep the freindship going and be more neutral. If your friend cares about you, you will hear from her. In the meantime, go do things that interest you and form new relationships with other people.
2007-02-24 13:28:10 · answer #2 · answered by juncogirl3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop helping her then. If you friendship is a strong as you say. Then she will understand. Or you could ask her why, she doesn't want to help you when you ask.
But then again, maybe she using your friendship, as something to fall back on ,when she gets in trouble.
So you best stop it before its gets out of hand. friendship can last a lifetime, but if one misuses it, and starts abusing it, then it becomes hurtful. And the friendship is broken,and will be hard to get it back.
2007-02-24 13:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like much of a friend dear. But if you do want to stay close to her then continue to see her and talk to her. If you don't give up on her then she will realize that you are a good friend.
2007-02-24 13:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by lynnerr55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she sucks as a friend.
focus on finding other people to be friends with and let her go.
if she's your friend she'll follow you and reach out when you move away from her. if she isn't, she doesn't care about you and is a crappy person, and she should not count as a friend.
if you put in more than 50% of the effort in any relationship, you are being sapped of energy and taken advantage of.
care about yourself enough to walk away, and you will find people who care about you more.
2007-02-24 13:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you and her a are really friends you will wait for her to get over this she will... over time... get over this and eaither marry someone or just go back to hanging with her friends if it really starts to bother you then just talk to her... just if you want to still be friends with her but you are getting mad at her for dising you dont keep it inside you just go talk to her
but the best thing to do would be to just let her get over this stage
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2007-02-24 13:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her If we cant talk because of boys we just cant be friends.
2007-02-24 13:27:08 · answer #7 · answered by Candy Girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might have to drop her off on your friends list.But next time she asks for help remind her what have ya done for me when i ask you for help.Be striaght up but avoid violence,Peace
2007-02-24 13:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she really your friend?
2007-02-24 13:29:39 · answer #9 · answered by AC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋