that he would send it to me. If he wants to share smutty stuff with other guys, that's his business, but I think its totally inappropriate to send this stuff to gals. How would you recommend that I let him know that I don't like such emails while still preserving our friendship?
2007-02-24 05:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This is simple.. and can be done in two ways.
1. Simply email him back and say what you just told all of us... or...
2. Confront him face to face.. and say the same.
In the world of Internet, people have become so numb. They often forget common sense and do things completely out of character. As long as people show this desensitized attitude... men, women and children are going to proceed sharing inappropriate behaviors over the Internet.
Take a stand! If it's something he doesn't share in person, there's no reason he should be sharing via e-mail. And unless you say something, it will not stop.
2007-02-24 05:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by naliwad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:09:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, make a copy and give it to him. so he knows you have one somewhere. then look him in the eye and say, never again. then if i stops , never mention it again unless he makes a habit of harrassing someone else. once in a while a decent guy get s the wrong impression and gives something stupid a try to see where it gets him. Draw the line clearly and then forgive him if you think he is friend material.
2007-02-24 05:20:33 · answer #3 · answered by julianne s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like being friends, but you don't
like getting smutty e-mails.
2007-02-24 05:33:01 · answer #4 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say this: i do not like that stuff and DO NOT SEND ME ANYTHING ELSE OR I WILL CALL THE LOCAL POLICE ON YOU! Then, you mean it like you are serrious!
And if he says anything else then just do whatever you have to do to protect yourself.
2007-02-24 05:41:37 · answer #5 · answered by Erik W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, that it's nothing against him, but that women in general don't appriciate that.
2007-02-24 05:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
simple tell him to can it or the next time you see him will be a door in is face
2007-02-24 05:18:55 · answer #7 · answered by finnlecarb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you did not appreciate it and ask him to never do it again.
2007-02-24 05:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by sarabelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say, "Don't send me stuff like that, I don't like it."
2007-02-24 05:18:49 · answer #9 · answered by rb42redsuns 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you treasure his friendship but not the smut he sends you & would he please stop!
2007-02-24 05:21:51 · answer #10 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋