Well we were both in rocky relationships b4 we started hanging out. When our relationships both ended we started hanging out more together and it was fun. It was really nice to have someone there who listened. Their divorce is final and there is a 9 year old in the picture. I have not met her yet and i think that is best until i am ready to meet her. Anyways something got messed up in the court papers about which child was getting a child support from my boyfriend. (the ex wife had a child that was not his) so it had the boys name on the papers instead of the girls name and the ex wife needed info on my boyfriend as to what car he had access to. my bf can't drive and he doesn't have a car or insurance or anything. She claimed that she needed the make/model/license # of any car he has access to. He doesn't drive my car! Why does she need to know this and is there anything she can put on my record by having this info?? She is a nurse so she has great connections with police officers.
2007-02-24 04:32:36 · 11 answers · asked by sn0w_hail 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well actually she has accused a man of harrassment when she was a nurse in a different state and did get him in trouble by filling a charge. She had a cop friend who filled these charges even though they were false.
2007-02-24 05:35:08 · update #1
give her no info.
2007-02-24 04:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by coffee37man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something is not right here, the child support issue involving the other child from the previous relationship, should be addressed as soon as possible. You better have your boyfriend get this matter situated or he will end up with child support due for a child that is not his. Also sounds as if she possibly his driving record is really bad or he has had drunk drivings and may be concerned if there child is in a vehicle with him. But it doesn't matter, that is your vehicle, and not his, he could be anyone's vehicle and possibly drive it. I agree with Ann S. The courts will let him know if that information is really necessary, and then he can submit it himself if that is the case. None of your information is anyone's business unless the courts deem it necessary, which I seriously doubt until you marry the man.
2007-02-24 05:13:41 · answer #2 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are just his "girlfriend" she has zero reason to have any of your information. No matter what their (your boyfriend and his ex) situation is regarding the child support, you have absolutely nothing to do with it.
Whether or not you own a vehicle, is none of her business.. and while I've never been through a child support issue, I just cannot imagine them needing that kind of information for any vehicle he has access to. That just sounds absurd to me. I mean, sure.. if he owned a vehicle, then I can see how that would be relevant, but what you have has nothing to do with it their case.
Your his girlfriend, not his wife.. so whatever property you have in your name, has absolutely nothing to do with him.
Also, I'm a little curious about your last statement.. What makes you assume that just because she's a nurse, that she has "great connections with police officers"? Does she just happen to know some?? I'm sorry, but unless she knows some crooked cops, I can't imagine how who she knows would have any bearings on the issue of child support.
I really think it would be best if you kept yourself out of their whole child support issue.. It's really none of your business, and doesn't involve you in the slightest. Like I said, your his girlfriend, not his wife. So, just let him handle things, and try to keep out of it.
2007-02-24 05:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by arkiegirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't need that information for anything other to dig for information about you. He should check with his lawyer about that. She probably just wants to know anything she can about you. Why can't he drive? Maybe he lost his license and her concern is that he is not driving her kid around? Doesn't make a lick of sense why there would be any need for her to have information about your car. Does that mean that from now on he has to give her that information about any car he has access to, ever? It just doesn't make sense. Just have him put in a call to his lawyer. Even so, if he doesn't drive your car, he doesn't have access to it, so don't give her the info.
2007-02-24 04:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by cakekweeny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to turn in a license plate number to give to friend of the court. She is trying to go after him for child support. The best advice I can give you is to run, because it doesn't seem like yoiu have all the information that you need about the past situation. She is trying to get your address to probably get him served at yoiur address or something. Because your car that he occassioanally rides in has nothing to do with court process. Be Blessed!
2007-02-24 04:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by MrsE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do with ex's is to stay out of it. What would you want if you were forced to deal with an ex of yours. Remember his child is involved and its not just about her. Be supportive and understanding up to a point. If he's at that point then let him know you can no longer accept his running to her every time she calls. And that unless he decides on his priorities soon then you will find someone without his baggage,
2016-03-28 22:41:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't know what car he drives and he's certainly not driving yours. She is overstepping her boundaries big time. She shouldn't be asking you questions and you have no legal obligation to answer her. Tell her that you have nothing to do with it and are going to stay out of it. Period. You're life will be a lot easier.
2007-02-24 05:01:35 · answer #7 · answered by Yogini 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesnt need that information, anything that is personal, is none of her concern and if she "needs" to know, tell ur bf to have the judge ask him for it, thats the only way he's going to give any information..
2007-02-27 04:48:03 · answer #8 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE DOES NOT NEED THAT INFORMATION YOU MAY NEED TO CONTACT THE POLICE BECAUSE IF SHE GETS THAT INFORMATION SHE COULD DO DAMAGE TO YOUR CAR OR EVEN ENDANGER YOU LIFE SO DO NOT GIVE HER THAT INFORMATION SHE IS LYING SHE ONLY NEEDS HIS INFORMATION NOT YOURS SHE IS FULL OF B S AND SHE JUST WANTS THAT FOR HER OWN PURPOSE NOT FOR CHILD SUPPORT . TAKE MY ADVICE DONT GIVE HER THE INFO.
2007-02-24 05:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by duby_doo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer. With a kid in the picture you will never be rid of her. Come down on her as hard as you can.
2007-02-24 04:53:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think any info required from your boyfriend should come from the court system. she is fishing . easy enough to say, have your lawyer contact mine
2007-02-24 04:46:21 · answer #11 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋