how come women that go to family law when they get a divorce they do not speak to the male at all?

Answer 1

Ruth I believe that if you have gotten to that point it doesn't do any good to keep talking about it. If one or both want the divorce what good would it do to keep hurting each other by saying things that is not important anymore? Once we get to that stage we mainly want to move on with our lives and start fresh. Plus most times in a divorce someone is hurting so it is best not to talk to each other.

Answer 2

The easiest way to go through with divorce, is to have NO contact with the other one. Once divorce is eminent, what else is there to say? Make a clean break! NO contact!!