I wanna know if one of my friends is gay?

Question

Hey Recently i've come out to 4 of my best friends they are Straight but two of them they look soo gay and the way they talk especialy one of them he always ask me if he is hot to gay guys and if i like him sexually and really he talks like a gay guy and like the things that gay boys like btw i like him so much and i wish that he is gay so can he understand me in a better way btw we are saudis and we live in saudi arabia and to tell somebody that u are gay is something very huge

btw they didnt accept me so much in the begining cuz of religious matters

there is something happend last night we were at one of our friendhe came to me and sit on my lap and hold squized my nippels and kissed me on the nick but he said it was a joke not serious and it was in front of three of our friends

there is something happend last night we were at one of our friend house came to me and sit on my lap and hold squized my nippels and kissed me on the nick but he said it was a joke not serious and it was in front of three of our friends

there is something happend last night we were at one of our friend house came to me and sit on my lap and hold squized my nippels and kissed me on the nick but he said it was a joke not serious and it was in front of three of our friends

Answer 1

For a start you should be very careful, living where you do. As for your friend, you would need to ask him why it is that he likes the things gay guys do (and, aside from male partners, that is different from straight guys how?) and wants to know if gay guys would find him hot.

Depending on his answers, you could then ask him if he was secretly gay.

However, be careful that you are not thinking he might be gay just because you fancy him.

Answer 2

He's either innocently curious, deliberately teasing you, or he's really gay. The only way to know is to confront him, privately. Tell him that his actions are the same as flirting with you and it's turning you on, which seems to be his intention, whatever his motive, and let him know that if he isn't really gay himself, it's making you uncomfortable, and for that reason you'd like to know what's going on.

Answer 3

i think you should say, "dude...what if u were kissed by someone in the complete darkness, and it was the best feeling in the world. then the lights turned on and it was a guy...but it felt amazing, what would u do?" if u ask that he may think ur into him and if hes into you....well u noewhat will happen...have the courage and good luck!!

Answer 4

The only way to know is if they come out and tell YOU personally.

Answer 5

You probably need to wait for him to tell you. Sounds like he's either genuinly curious or he might be easing his way to confessing to you. Give it time.