Since I've gotten married, I get so many obvious come-ons...where were these women before I was married?....Not that I am dis-satisfied with my wife! Is it fun for women to tease men that are powerless to do anything....or do they seriously want to sin? The thrill of the forbidden?
2007-02-24 04:21:26 · 11 answers · asked by raggnaar 4 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Women are strange creatures, I'm sure you'll agree! They always want what other women consider something or someone worth having. Security of knowing you are married, makes them want what that woman has. Sometimes the woman just wants to cause strife and confusion in another womans life. Sometimes they flirt without meaning to though, just let them know that you are satisfied with your wife, and have no intentions of messing up your life, and they usually back off. Hope your wife understands that some girls just can't be trusted, a man can only be tempted so long, it is up to you to stop it before you end up committing adultry.
2007-02-24 04:34:19 · answer #1 · answered by Linda W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are numerous reasons, it maybe their not happy or missing something in their marriage. It maybe too, that the single women are flirting with them too. Sure it's nice to flirt but at what costs? We as women, wives, mothers etc... need to focus on if we aren't feeling comfortable with our husbands, boyfriends,and in some cases girlfriends, turning our attention to someone else isn't going to solve anything. It will make bigger messes and complicate matters more. This works both ways as to men. If we would take the time to appreciate and communicate with the ones we have and concentrate on improving these relationships then, I feel we would have less divorces and more examples for generations to follow.
2016-05-24 06:06:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one is sort of true. Women are grossly unnattracted to men who seem to need it. Men that are comfortable, secure, and not coming on to them or even looking for some are typically more interesting.
Same thing happened to me when I was married. People want want they can't have or is hard to get. Human nature.
2007-02-24 12:05:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are nurturers and home builders. As soon as they see and recognize a good man, they home in. Unfortunately it is so. In the animal world only the best males get to sire the next generation. Subconsciously I think female hormones also kick into action when they recognize a good 'sire'. The poor wife is left to defend her home and family from the predators - read bitches.
2007-02-24 06:05:03 · answer #4 · answered by MaggieSA 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This reminds me of a similar situation of myself. Years ago, my second wife and I were growing apart. She pushed me away and even encouraged me to run off with our babysitter which back to your point was always flirting with me. I became very attached and ended up splitting up with my wife. Shortly thereafter, the baby sitter started having less and less to do with me. I don't know, is the thrill of the chase, the risk, the excitement that kept her attached to me then all ended when I became totally free.
2007-02-24 04:28:33 · answer #5 · answered by Don A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think they like the challenge, and they want fun without commitment. Or now that you have some stamp of approval from a woman you are worth having.
2007-02-24 04:25:27 · answer #6 · answered by Catman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why do men come on to unavailable women? No, really, I want to know...
2007-02-24 19:59:41 · answer #7 · answered by wendy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The thrill of doing something they are not supposed to do is more exciting.
2007-02-24 07:17:29 · answer #8 · answered by theflame_inside 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just the Karma thing and because ppl always want what they cant have never fails
2007-02-24 04:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are immoral, depraved, and degenerate
2007-02-26 15:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by brightstar65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋