yes it will probably still hurt, and yes you are still a virgin, the first time is different for everyone, no it won't grow together again, usually the bleeding is caused by the hymen breaking, there is no way to tell how it was broken, unfortunately most guys are jerks and won't ever believe you broke your hymen during horseback riding, unless you find a nice guy. good luck.
2007-02-24 04:16:46
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answered by spindizz 3
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The presence or absence of a hymen has nothing whatsoever to do with virginity. How can it when some girls are born without a hymen? And orion is not weird about rape vs consensual sex acts and virginity.
No, it won't grow back. You might or might not feel some discormfort and you might or might not bleed just a bit.
If you partner takes his time and knows how to tell if your body is ready, which he will do if he cares (for teenaged boys and for too many so-called men, a partner is nothing more than an organic masturbation tool), then intercourse should never be uncomfortable. If none of the above is the case, it could and would always be uncomfortable.
A doctor doesn't care how your hymen might have been broken. Or, put it this way, as long as you are of age according to your local laws, a doctor doesn't care.
I'm including some links for you, with more information. All of this, and so much more, is stuff that you should have learned in school, except that certain small and extreme groups refuse to allow it to be taught. You can't be faulted for that, but when you're older, remember this please, so that you can start to change that.
I know that's a lot, but it's in place of what you, what every child, ought to be taught on a routine basis. Take your time.
One more thing, though. You don't have to deliberately break your hymen. If you think that you've done so by accident, then so be it. But you don't have to make a point of doing something in order to break it. It either will or it won't. On that particular subject, though, some women have a very thick hymen that makes penetration difficult. In such cases, a doctor can help, using specific medical instruments.
2007-02-24 04:44:21
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answered by Anonymous
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1: Will it hurt? -Probably not. You might feel a 'pinch' when it tore - Different hymens are different thicknesses and most people who tear theirs accidentally don't even notice. Like any other membrane, you can tear it a little or a lot. Even sexual activity doesn't always completely rupture the hymen.
2: Am I still a virgin? - Absolutely. Virginity is a question of whether or not you've had sex (and to my mind WILLING sex - being raped doesn't count as far as I'm concerned, but I'm weird). It has nothing to do with the status of your hymen.
3: Will first time having sex be more comfortable? - Quite possibly. Comfort during your first time has a lot more to do with your mental attitude, fear level, and most importantly, the guy you're with than the presence or absence of an un-torn hymen. A very tough hymen can indeed make things uncomfortable, but someone taking their time will reduce that a lot, even to nothing. "Your first time always hurts" is a myth and is based upon clumsy over-anxious men more than any physical reason.
4: Will it grow together again? - No. The hymen doesn't re-grow.
5: Will it bleed? - Possibly. It depends upon the thickness of the hymen and how torn it is from the horseback riding. You may notice some light spotting or you may notice a small stain. It's not a lot of blood, no matter what.
6: Can the gyn tell that it was not because of sex? - Not really. Depending upon the type and degree of tear (s)he might SUSPECT you were having sex, but that can't be proven by looking at the hymen. Many women are born without one entirely! There's no such thing as a 'Virginity Exam' - The doc could say "Yes, you are a virgin" if you had an entirely intact hymen. More likely, there would be some degree of tearing and they have NO way of knowing what caused that. There are many, many, many ways of tearing the hymen. People who think that all virgins have a hymen and bleed their first time making love are more than a little clueless, especially in today's very athletically active society.
I've attached a link to the Wikipedia entry on this subject - Please note, this article contains some very graphic medical-level photographs, so click through with care.
Hope this helps!
Orion
2007-02-24 04:43:15
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answered by Orion 5
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To answer your questions:
well first of all its hymen, not hyme ;)
No, you won't break it while horse back riding. This is highly unlikely and in most cases you will just stretch it out not break it.
It will not hurt because you will not break it unless you do for some odd reason (yet I have NEVER heard of this happening...)
Yes you are still a virgin. You can only NOT become a virgin if you have sex. Riding horses is not having sex!
Well it could be more comfortable but again i dont think you'll break it, just stretch it out so yes it could be easier
the first time you break it, it will bleed... AGAIN i dont think this will happen on a horse...
There is NO way for the gyn to be able to tell whether or not you have sex. Many virgins do not have their hymen in tact, it just depends on the person, not whether you've had sex! Don't worry she won't be able to tell.
2007-02-25 04:40:23
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answered by Miso 2
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I broke mine on my bicycle when I was 11 and I thought I had gotten my period it did not hurt a lot just a little...but then when it quit bleeding my mother and I realized I had broke my hymen...My first time making love was not painful at all must be because of this.
The gyno does not care if it was not because of sex only your parents would be concerned. However, if you are thinking of having sex and then telling your parents that you lost your hymen horseback riding I would not suggest that lie....Parents are very smart and the loss of innocence in your face will be proof to them if you are still a virgin or if it was a mistake on a horse.
If you think you are ready to have sex please educate yourself... Look at the statistics of STDs and Aids They are very scary dear and masturbation is always the safest way to go until you are much older say around the age of 19 or so. Masturbation is not dirty and it is perfectly normal everyone does it... So be safe!!
2007-02-24 04:41:06
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answered by reggiethecokegirl 3
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hymen
IFFY question gets IFFY answers
1 Maybe,, but if your having fun you may not notice it.
2 Yes!! virgin is a sudo religious term having to do with property rights, penetration and possible pregnancy.
but you become a virgin 24 hours after any penetration so long as you don't get pregnant or one of you blab.
3 Good point, more than likely!! since you won't worry about bleeding or pain.
4 grow back !!! that would be a pain in the as$ NO
5 bleed ??? maybe!! It wouldn't hurt to use a pantie liner just in case. You know it wouldn't hurt to use one any time you plan being bounced on your fanny to catch any leak Bicycles motorcycles
6 a gyn would have to have seen you before to even know you had a hymen,, some girls are born without. and it can be broken at any age. Like I said, 24 hrs good as new. Just Keep It Clean!!
2007-02-24 04:52:53
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answered by Anonymous
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I'm not sure if that's possible, but I'll try to answer.
Will it hurt?-maybe
Am I still a virgin?--yes, unless you have had sex.
Will first time having sex be more comfratable?--maybe, maybe not.
Will it grow together again?--no
Will it bleed?--probably
Can the gyn tell that it was not because of sex?--probably not.
2007-02-24 04:18:42
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answered by majnun99 7
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It could hurt a little, but nothing unbearable.
Yes.
Yes, probably.
No.
It might bleed, but probably only a little if it does.
The gyn can never tell if you've had sex or not just by looking at your hymen.
2007-02-24 04:10:57
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answered by Anonymous
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effective, it is incredibly a threat to have broken your hymen by skill of horseback driving. not basic falls on your backside can do it too, as properly as finished of existence masturbation or maybe putting a tampon.
2016-10-16 09:40:55
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answered by thedford 4
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Don't think that's possible, since it's up inside your vagina. Yes, will hurt a little, yes will be more comfortable having sex if it's gone, no it won't grow back, yes it will bleed, and yes the gyno can tell if it's from sex or not.
2007-02-24 04:09:08
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answered by karenhar 5
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