What can I do with this friend?

Question

My best friend is one of my classmates. We shared each other's secrets and had a lot of common things. I thought she was my best friend and I told her everything about myself.
There was a boy who liked me a lot since we met. We both went to another friend's concert during which I introduced my best friend to him.
Several days ago, my best friend told me they were together. I was shocked and suddenly realized why last time she asked me to leave when she said she had a visitor.
I had a feeling that I was cheated by her and she took advantage of me.
I was little bit sad these days and she didn't contact me since she was with this boy.
What can I do with her?

Answer 1

Do you feel like you can trust her again? If not, find other friends with whom you can have fun and feel comfortable. If you think it's worth remaining best friends, then you'll just have to forgive her and hope you can rebuild your friendship. When the guy dumps her, after she introduces him to another girl, she'll come crawling back to you. What do YOU want to do? No one can tell you how to feel.

Answer 2

You can keep your distance and let the friendship go. If you see her when you are out you can be civil and say hi but thats it. Obviously she doesn't have your best interest at heart. She knew that you were interested in the guy and she still pursued him behind your back.......what do you need her friendship for? She is killing you emotionally. A friend wouldn't do that.

Unfortunately, we live in a society where this is very common. Heather Locklear and Denise Richards are a perfect example. Look out for yourself honey.

Answer 3

I usually don't think violence is the answer, but if I were you, this time I'd make the ***** more miserable than she already is, whoring around & stabbing friends in the back. I'd stop talking to the guy, also. Then move on, have a good life & look back at the past that you solved your own mess proudly.

Answer 4

Throughout the entire thing, you Never said that you liked the boy that liked you. Maybe he felt that you weren't interested & decided to move on. If you did like the boy & you're best friend knew this then maybe you should talk to her & tell her how she hurt you. I dpn't agree with her ignoring you but that's another story. Wish you the best!

Answer 5

SEt up a time to with her, and tell her how you feel. If she doesn't say sorry, or feel any remorse then she really isn't your friend. I would move on, and I know that sounds harsh, but I have a similar situation and I found out the hard way it's best to just move on.

Answer 6

you can either deal with who she's going out w/ and move on, or hate her for the fact that she "stole" your intended man, and leave her for it.

Reality is, there is nothing that says she cannot date whomever she wants..and IF he expressed interest in her, then she is well within her right (as a friend, and a human) to date that guy..

Answer 7

well as you can see she was never your friend from the jump. i was always told never tell a other female your deep secrets when it come down to your relationship with your boyfriend and never take them with on a data, limit what you tell them

Answer 8

Tell her she ain't no friend of yours.I mean, if this boy dumps her then what?Is she going to start contacting you again?If I were you i'd end your friendship, but then again i'm not you.

Answer 9

well if shes really your friend you can talk to her and tell her how you feel about this boy and how you had a relationship with him. if she says something like "hes mine now" or "you had your chance" shes not a good friend.

Answer 10

if she was your real friend she wouldn't have done that to u. i know by experience that she would sleep with your boyfriends in the future. this is not something that u should have to worry about if she was your best friend