I meet this 24 yr old girl through my brother as his gf. But my bro was dating her while engaged to his 2+yrs wife to be. After 3 months, he got busted thanks to my mom because neither of them knew the existence of each other and he chose is wife to be. Now, a mth later I met the 24 yr old while minding my business and we hit it off. I meet her family and they welcomed me with open arms. When my bro found out that he was very upset and things got crazy. He and his wife to be started to spread rumors about her to friends and family specially my parents. My parents and her falled out so they don't really talk to her specially knowing she date my bro.
After 2yrs of dating, we broke up. we met other ppl but we endup being unfaithfull with each others partners and I got busted. My mother told me that if I want to be with her I have to move out(i have no prob) for peace sake but she'll never be welcome in her house or future family gathering. I love her but i love my family as well.
2007-02-24 03:57:14 · 6 answers · asked by alex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
blood is thicker than water. Ur mom is always going to be ur mom no matter what. That girl may not be around as long as u like for her to be. hope this helped. good luck
2007-02-24 04:06:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to choose your family. I was 18 and started dating this guy that my family hated so I ended up leaving home and it really hurt them. That was the hardest time of my life because of what it was doing to them. We broke up after a year and I still regret choosing him over my family. So hopefully you won't make the same mistake. Even though they should be more understanding, they are always going to be your family and they love you and need to come first.
2007-02-24 12:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so im pretty confuzed about what your question is. If it is wether you should stick with the girl or your family, you should definitely think about sticking with your family. Unless, you are completely sure that she is absolutely positively the one for you, i don't think she is all that worth it. Who are the people who have been there for you for the minute since you were born? Who were the people who were by your side through thick and thin? who came to all your little concerts when you were a kid? who tended to you when you were sick? who taught how to live in this world? your family. they care about you sooo much. think about how your relationship with your family would get messed up if you went out with this girl? and think about your brother. think about how much this relationship you could have with this girl could hurt your love for eachother. is this girl really worth it? I saw that you mentioned that she has been unfaithful with some of the other people she was with. what makes you so sure that she wont be like that with you? or even the other way around. just think about it. which relationship is more important to you? the girl or the family?
I hope everything works out. God Bless!
2007-02-24 12:11:13 · answer #3 · answered by InlovewithJESUS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does you heart say? listen to it. Most commonly families are like that at first they don't agree. But as time passes by they will accept the fact that you love the girl, so what if your family disagrees with it, just think that time will come that you will have your own family...
did you get what I'm trying to point out here???...
2007-02-24 12:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by flower_roxy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same thing in my fam. the person in my fam choose the girl over us. i still see him cause he is my dad, but the rest of the family doesn't. were kinda torn apart now. go w/ the family. please.
2007-02-24 12:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by RikiRo 346 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, just dump her
2007-02-24 12:34:54 · answer #6 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋