Why is it that men are such pigs, why do they lie about you being the person that makes them happy but goes out their way to live a wild lifestyle? Can't they understand that the more they insult your intelligence, the more we turn against them, it makes the whole relatiohship seem like just what it is a joke. How do I meet someone that will have the same interests as me, that I can trust?
2007-02-24 03:55:58 · 9 answers · asked by pac_woman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
the very same reason women lie duh!!!!!!
2007-02-24 03:59:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Most guys ARE pigs. Glad you can see that. I think some guys just lie because they figure they won't get anywhere by being honest about what they really want. You can meet a guy who is not some pig, but it's a needle in a haystack. There are a zillion toads, and only a few princes. All women may not be honest, but I think it is fair to say that the guys are overall more likely to cheat, play games and be abusive in a relationship compared to women. The reason is that men's bodies have more testosterone than women's which puts sex on their brains a bit more than women. Plus, men's minds and emotions work differently than women's. This is why men and women typically don't understand each other, and many guys choose to be dishonest about what they truly want or how they feel about you. It is easier for them to lie - even if it's at your expense. You have to be choosy about men and take your time getting to know them before getting too involved.....That's my opinion.
2007-02-24 05:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This may sound rude, so please forgive any offense - none is intended.
Everyone lies to a greater or lesser extent. That said perhaps it is the type of man you find attractive or choose to try and have a relationship with that is the problem.
Not all men choose to go out and live a wild lifestyle and not all men are pigs. Perhaps you need to re-evaluate what it is in a man that turns your head and makes you enter into a relationship - in order to settle down with one that you will trust?
Good Luck in finding him.
2007-02-24 04:17:16 · answer #3 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because men are evolutionarily programmed to have excess so when the well runs dry they have another well to tap, so to speak.
And the only way for one well to not find out about the other well is to well... lie.
Women are evolutionarily programmed to protect what they have a stable relationship, a stable family.
If these two things did not happen, primitive men would stick around with women long after they have grown old and infertile, or just stopped having sex with them and humanity would have risked dieing out. And primitive women would have abandoned their children in caves to get eaten by wild animals, and humanity would have died out.
2007-02-24 04:07:35 · answer #4 · answered by Vultureman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't carry the past with you - you need to be open. Spend some time alone and really find out who you are and what you want. You will meet someone when you're ready.
2007-02-24 04:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the penis fills, the brain drains. How can you trust anyone totally when most people (men & women) can't even trust themselves? I say...what you don't know doesn't hurt you. If you want loyaty and trust.....get a puppy.
2007-02-24 04:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think this quote from Desperate Housewives sums it up best:
"An erect penis has no conscience.
The limp ones aren't that ethical either."
2007-02-24 04:25:23 · answer #7 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the ones that lie are COWARDS!
2007-02-24 04:38:08 · answer #8 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it easier than telling the Truth!!!
Wahoo!!!
2007-02-24 04:00:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋