have thought about cheating in my other posts, but I really thank everyone for getting my mind straight.
it seems i am in search of a sexual whim.....
My wife being a straight laced baptist is hard to talk to about my sexual desires (facials, various sex positions, fantasies)...
I have considered writing her an email.....I could certainly describe to her what my desires are and am willing to fulfill her desires..
...should i write her an email.....(we have talked about this in the past but with no forward progress)..
I have looked on the internet at porn and I have a very wide open mind in things to do....she would not know who Peter North even is....
...I understand this is all about communication and compromise...I am willing to do whatever it takes.....
I just know I do not want to hurt her by going to someone who is already open to this stuff....
any advice from someone who has been here????
2007-02-24 03:53:44 · 4 answers · asked by scriptseeker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Good job!! You need to tell her everything you just told us, you don't want to cheat and you won't. Just that alone should make her feel as though she needs to compromise with her man and take a chance. You are one in a million and if I were her, I would do anything to keep that mind set in you. If all else fails, then you need to come back with another question and take it from there. Best of luck, tell her personally, maybe just take the chance and act on your instincts while you're in bed with her. Hmmmmm.
2007-02-24 04:15:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to stop talking about desires and fantasies....just start touching her and doing it.
Heck, go down on her while she's sleeping. Who can say "no", waking up to a great feeling?...and you, the husband should be making it all happen.
Maybe she's just posing as innocent about all this?...I bet she has fantasies she wants fulfilled.
If she won't talk about it....hand her a pencil and paper....ask for a "fantasy list".
If she inquires....tell her you want to please her fully.
You're adults...act like it and have fun.
Just don't rape her....unless....she wants you to role play.
2007-02-24 12:19:10 · answer #2 · answered by Bonnie Lynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun send her the email give it to her in explicit detAIL SHE WILL GET MORE PLEASURE OUT OF THAT THAN YOU THINK I KNOW WHERE SHES COMMING FROM I USE TO BE THE SAME WAY WITH MY HUBBIE ABOUT SEX I DID NOT LIKE TO TALK ABOUT IT BUT HE WOULD RIGHT LITTLE NOTES AND LEAVE THEM FOR ME TO FIND AND I FINALLY CAME AROUND AND NOW I TELL HIM OPENLY AND HONESTLY MY THOUGHTS AND FANTSIES YOU COULD THROW ROSE PETALS ON THE FLOOR, ANDPUT A ROSE ON HER PILLOW WITH A NOTE TELLING HER HOW YOU LOVE HER AND YOUR FANTSY OR POSITION YOU WANT FOR THAT NIGHT THIS JUST MIGHT HELP SHE WILL COME OUT OF SHELL SOONER OR LATER TRY THIS IT MIGHT HELP LET ME KNOW IF IT DOSES IM A WOMAN I CAN GIVE YOU SOME MORE TIPS .
2007-02-24 12:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by duby_doo2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ps... I can understand how u want to spice things up... but even I think facials are degrading... maybe if u like that sorta stuff u can aim at ur own face...lol
2007-02-24 15:22:58 · answer #4 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋