Me and my husband have been separated for almost 2 weeks now, its not the first time. But to make this long story short "Its his way or no way". I love him but I cant be living like this. It got to the point where he told me He wasnt going to sacrifice his happiness for mine. But then he tells me he just said that cause he was mad. I dont know what to do.
2007-02-24 03:49:57 · 9 answers · asked by JeSsE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2007-02-24 04:05:00 · update #1
Sounds to me like you two are suffering from a lack of respect for each other. Agreeing to disagree goes a long way towards correcting that problem, but if that's out of the question, it's probably time to call it quits.... the only way to change a control freak is if the control freak wants to change. That, by the way, works both ways....it takes two to tango...
2007-02-24 04:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Krtyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its simple.. either u put up and shut up and live the rest of ur life, being controled by a control freak, or u put ur foot down and say .. "you know what, we are already seperated, and i enjoy having a mind of my own, and if u want me back your going to have to prove to me, that we are partners and that this isnt the "Its all about Me show" .. on his part.. "
If u want him to change u have to force the issue, but also be willing to take the chance that he could say "screw that" and move on.. but the way i see it.. ur already seperated, and u cant keep living a life of never knowing where u stand and not getting the respect that u deserve, and him leaving whenever its convient for him to leave because he isnt getting his way.. so either u take the risk, and let him know u mean business, or u take him back, and stop complaining about something that ur willing to enable him to do..
2007-02-24 12:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that you are separated try out his philosophy, Do not settle for less and sacrifice yourself and your happiness for anyone. If you find that there is still room for him in your new life than let him know. See how he reacts when those words are coming out of your mouth. Good Luck! Love is tough and dealing with butt heads is such a pain, but its well worth it in the end.
2007-02-24 11:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you happy? Do you know? It doesn't sound like it is him. You have to live life knowing that your needs are being met as well as "serving" your husbands needs. I personally think that he is selfish to make such a statement and he doesn't take an interest in what makes you happy. Think hard, what is it that you want and is he "really" the one who can give it to you or are you better off apart.
2007-02-24 11:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by inkinheaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say things they dont mean when theyre angry just talk and tell him how you feel. There are some things that should not be said in a relationship
2007-02-24 12:01:53 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude. There can't be TWO of you asking the same questions. Come on, now.
2007-02-24 11:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by <3 The Pest <3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling for yourself. It will give you a different perspective on things
2007-02-24 12:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Lana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then i would go ahead and find someone to make me happy and not dwell on him nomore. why would you let someone mentally abuse you like that? love don't hurt you know and someday i hope you finally see and feel that.
2007-02-24 12:00:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out now you don"t need someone who doesn't love you
2007-02-24 11:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋