we r seperated . I walked in his house and saw this.......... how do you think I felt?.
2007-02-24 03:42:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You felt disgusted and betrayed, for, you would think that just because you're separated, he would have at least a shred of respect for you. I'd leave and never speak to him again (grant it there aren't any children involved). Move on...it's not worth it.
2007-02-24 03:47:50 · answer #1 · answered by Inquiring mind wants to know.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I been here before I was not seperated at the time though I whipped her *** for one. Because she knew we were having problems in the marriage we are no longer married but I can imagine you felt like she was taking over someone you prolly still have feelings for and love even though you are seperated. What did he think about you seeing him with other woman and what did he have to say about it that is what you should ask yourself if he didnt seem to care then why should you dont waste your time sweating that kinda stuff because it will only cause issues with you raise your stress and stuff but I would still have fun whipping her *** LOL sorry you had to see that hon but thats just how men in general are non caring worthless dogs!!
2007-02-24 03:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by poohbear27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny that when my wife and I were separated (pending a divorce), we both sought affairs. I went out with a girl who used sex as a way to make me fell good about myself. She made me feel great, at least for a little while. My wife went after the love of her youth, much to the displeasure of his wife. Now that we are back together again, my wife is quick to defend her relationship with the married ex boyfriend because it was so real (at least in her mind) even though she knows is was wrong. The worst part is ther is no excuse in her eyes for the way I behaved while we were separated, even though we were doing the same thing. You can sense that attitude from the female respondents to this question.
2007-02-24 05:35:15 · answer #3 · answered by The Central Scrutinizer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if your separated chances are that she had no intentions of making the marriage work, so divorce her and let it go. I know it hurts, I walked into my bedroom and found my ex husband in OUR bed with another woman. Divorce her and find a real woman that will treat you right. You deserve better than her.
2007-02-24 03:47:29 · answer #4 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him yet you were already seperated. Divorce him which is what I did though I did not see him naked with another woman my 3 year old told me when she went to visit them, we were also seperated, that they shared a bed. I divorced him.
2007-02-24 03:46:32 · answer #5 · answered by 'lil peanut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you felt, believe me. I was still with my ex when I came into the same situation. Dump his sorry ***, move on and get up on life girl. You need to take some of your girlfriends out clubbing and enjoy yourself to the fullest. Let him have his one night stand, it won't last long. Remember, easy ladies are just that. She will find another married bimbo to sack her down and then he will be all alone again. Go and enjoy life, get away from him and move forward. Live, love and laugh.
2007-02-24 03:49:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you felt totally deflated...felt like crap! I'd cut my losses and get on with my life AFTER I filed for divorce on grounds of infidelity, and I'd make DAMN sure I was the one who filed FIRST. That can make all the difference in court AND it'll give you back a large degree of self confidence that comes from being the one in charge of the situation.
2007-02-24 03:54:52 · answer #7 · answered by Krtyr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was me, I'd be soo hurt and upset. That also would draw the line for divorce. If he's in bed with another woman, then he obviously isn't too worried about working it out with you. I am soo sorry about this! You deserve a man that would not do that to you!!
2007-02-24 03:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by mommy2be031207 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your separated and he is living on his own. You have no right to say anything. You are apart for good reasons right? This is more proof that he is ready to move on with his life away from you and your relationship. Get the hell out and forget this miserable person who doesn't deserve your love and trust.
2007-02-24 03:48:26 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you separated, did you make some ground rules of seeing other people? did you not call him before you went over there?
Does he allow you to just walk in?
I don't know how your felt, because you didn't say.
2007-02-24 03:47:24 · answer #10 · answered by altes_jan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋