Last night I went to an under 16's nightclub with a few mates and I accidently french kissed this boy and I am only 12. I am really scared of my mum finding out. What shall I do if my mum finds out ? HELP!
2007-02-24 03:27:35 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You accidentally kissed him? Did your tongue just fall in his mouth?
Don't stress about it how is your mum possibly going to find out?
2007-02-24 03:30:05 · answer #1 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be worried as you have done nothing wrong! If you are feeling concerned then perhaps you are not ready to be doing this yet, but it was just a kiss, it doesn't mean you have to or will go any further.
I suspect your Mum will just be a little sad that her baby girl is growing up but sadly we all do! Put it down to experience and don't be ashamed!
If I were you I would tell my Mum as being honest will only strenghthen her relationship and trust in you, plus she will realise that you still need her approval etc. If she was to find out through gossip it may be exaggerated or she could be concerned that you didn't feel you could tell her and that she is losing control of you.
Remember you are young and you deserve these experiences and to have fun. As long as you know what you are doing and being strong and safe then there will be no harm done. I think your mum should be proud that you have such standards as to be worried about this! Good luck, have fun and DONT WORRY...IT'S ONLY A KISS!
2007-02-24 03:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by gellygoggles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless your friends tell your mum or the guy that you kissed does she is not going to find out. However at the age of 12 you should not be french kissing guys especially as you know that if your mum finds out you will be in trouble. (However if she does does you can either deny it and say that you didn't or you could come clean which would be the sensible thing to do).
2007-02-24 03:34:03 · answer #3 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go around doing those kinds of things. Stay with a group of friends. If the group doesn't go, don't go alone. Your time will come to grow up, so don't rush into it.
I know, I know, you want to be grown, to experience life. Believe me, life will hit you in the face like a brick wall soon enough. Enjoy being free and young and having less worries whlie you can.
My brother's step-daughter is 13 and going to have a baby in April because she did some dumb things and now the baby's father doesn't want anything to do with her or the baby. He got what he wanted from her and now he's off chasing other innocent girls. The heartbreak in all of this is that she will have to go on and finish school with a new baby to care for, no money for anything, too young to have a good job... and on and on.
You need to remember that sex does NOT a relationship make. LOVE makes relationships. And, honey, true love really does wait. These boys will promise you the moon if they can get you to have sex with them, but they will drop you like slime when they're done messing around. Please don't give away your virtue. Once it's gone, it's gone forever and you can't undo that fact.
I know it's hard to listen to Mom and Dad, because they don't have a chrystal-clear picture of the scene you're in, but they do have a pretty good idea about it anyway. I remember what it was like to be 12 and have to listen to lectures and I remember thinking my parents were completely out of this world. But I also know that they were partly right, here and there, and they knew more than I thought they did.
Please remember that even the best of friends can give wrong advice and that friends don't always know what's best for you, but Mom and Dad won't ever knowingly steer you wrong. They love you and they want what's best for you, even if they don't say things the right way and they lose it from time to time. They just don't want you to make the mistakes they did or their friends did, is all.
2007-02-24 03:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Peggy K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a good relationship with your Mum talk to her. If it has scared you you are not ready for this sort of thing and you know it. Your Mum can advise you on how old you should be to be kissing boys in this way. Have fun and enjoy yourself but be very careful, take you Mums advice and you wont go to far wrong.
2007-02-24 03:36:11 · answer #5 · answered by charlotte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi mum here I just find out you French kissed a boy . What where you thinking of you going to throw your life away .your are going to be grounded for life maybe longer.
love mum
2007-02-24 03:42:12 · answer #6 · answered by Demetrios 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emma, what are you doing on this site? You kissed a....You are in serious trouble. Get home now!
Mum
On a serious note though, how can a 12 year old have 13% best answers? Only one other person who has responded so far has a better % than you. You must be a prodigy and if you are then you know how to get yourself out of this one.
2007-02-24 03:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all there is no such thing as an accidental french kiss. that is truly intentional. If you dont want your mum to find out, dont tell her, but i would not do it again at least till you are a little older, where you arent worried so much about your mum finding out.
2007-02-24 03:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by mlock123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you accidently french kissed? to be honest you shouldnt be kissing at all at 12 far too young (oh the youth of today) but lets hope mum doesnt find out eh and learn from it
2007-02-24 03:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mum Im growing up and he was a great kisser.
I would want your first times in most things to be great.
You are growing up...
Just do it safe...
These may help
www.ruthinking.org.uk
www.childline.org.uk
www.4yp.co.uk
www.fpa.org.uk
www.brook.org.uk
http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/
www.drugscope.org.uk
www.lifeline.org.uk
www.talktofrank.com
Seriously you are going to do a lot more kissing soon, enjoy.
Just do it with a guy who likes you.
Look you are noly a human girl person who is growing up to be a teenager girl person.
You will be very unhappy and hurt if you cant find guys to kiss you.
And kissing boys should make you happy especially with a specail boy
Its nothing shameful or immoral or bad.
2007-02-24 09:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out Girl, your mom won't be shocked for long her little girl is growing up, but please don't rush it takes things slowly you are bound over the next 3/4 years do tons of stuff you think your mom will be mad about and she will but she will also understand, its normal and natural she probably did the exact same things, talk to her . ask her , tell her she could be your best friend in all this. Don't lie but when and if the asks be honest, Honestly girls that don't normally find life a lot harder
2007-02-24 03:33:26 · answer #11 · answered by decrepid1958 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋