WHEN HAVING SEX I DON'T FEEL ANYTHING. I ONLY HAD SEX THREE TIMES
2007-02-24 02:46:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Do you feel anything when you masturbate? Find out what you like & then you can share with your partner what turns you on.
It may take a while until you find out what works for you, be sure you have a lot of foreplay (this will enhance your experience). :)
2007-02-25 10:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Fraulein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean by "not feeling anything"? Do you mean you don't feel a climax sensation, or do you literally feel numb during the actual process if sex?
If it is just that you are not reaching climax, don't worry. Many women don't experience orgasm during sex. If however you are feeling NOTHING at all this may be that you are not sexually aroused. If you are not aroused and are having sex just because you decided you want to you may not find it enjoyable. Try stimulating the clitoris before sex (foreplay is essential in experiencing good sex as it helps stimulate the sex drive and prepares you for sex). Do you respond to clitoral stimulation at all??
Sometimes, if you are hesitant,shy, embarrassed, that can hinder any sexual feelings. also, if things in a relationship are not good emotionally, chances are they won't be good sexually either. maybe try to show/tell him what you like or feels good. this may be uncomfortable to tell him but usually the guy will want to please you and doesn't mind when you suggest things. If things don't feel good, like if you are dry, use some ky jelly or even natural oils like almond oil to help make things more comfortable. start things slowly and have lots of foreplay and see how it feels then.
If you still get no sensation- consult a GP as it may be more than an emotional/psychological thing and could be a physical problem. But i'm sure it is just something you need to experiment with.
2007-02-24 03:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by bales 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the person you're dealing with doesn't know what he is doing. Either that or it's some kind of problem with you. Talk to your doctor or OB/GYN.
2007-02-24 02:57:23 · answer #3 · answered by Sexy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear it is obvious that there is no foreplay, and your boyfriend is quick to ejaculate. Find something else to occupy your mind and if that is not possible, protect yoursefl against disease and unwanted pregnancy.
2007-02-24 03:53:51 · answer #4 · answered by fluffyflo_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe it's your boyfriend because you can usually feel something
2007-02-24 02:52:08 · answer #5 · answered by T.T. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because you have no idea what you are doing and apparently neither does he. keep practicing.
2007-02-24 02:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by mystery_me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might have phimosis.
2007-02-24 14:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋