Neighbor around bend saw my big house, bfriended me, & holidays '05 stalked & tried to steal my loving husband by using our grl chats against me. Husband & I were both vulnerable (40 & married 16 yrs), he had affair with her but we worked 2gether to get her out of our life. Our families spent lots of time together; their boys go 2 same elementary as mine -- 1 in same grade (hence our assoc.). She & husband are now definitely in horrible marriage but after a year, they still haven't broken & moved. I see them often & they don't even drive in the same vehicle or talk at kids sporting events. My life would be great if I didn't have to see her ever again. Her husband is a good man but is so afraid to lose his kids, he will live absolutely miserably just to be with them. Yesterday I called municipality anonymously and reported an old truck they have as a junk vehicle. She will be mortified when the police arrive at her door about her husband's junk. Any other ideas to annoy her?
2007-02-24 02:22:30 · 5 answers · asked by natjarlia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Moving is not an option for me. We have friends and much much more to lose than they. They are shunned. It's got to only be a matter of time for them, I would just love to pass my time in the dead of winter encouraging their unhappiness.
2007-02-24 02:41:29 · update #1
Just looking for some creative ideas! No harm intended, just a little nudge. I think she gives her husband the feeling that there's still something going on because he watches my husband's comings and goings on occasion. They are creepy and need to move on so I can stop worrying if I have to look at her at a school function or run into her at the store. You can just imagine what that's like for me. No trust issue with my husband, he is so over her and realized how close to losing everything he was. Ideas. I need a couple of ideas to humor myself. If I have to live down the street from them, I may as well have a little fun instigating a little squirming on their part.
2007-02-24 02:52:31 · update #2
piepiepie, you sound like a woman who would go after a married man no matter what you sacrifice -- like her. She deserves everything she gets. I have been mature and levelheaded throughtout this horrific ordeal! If this is the most trouble I cause for her, she gets off very, very easy. She almost ruined my family and my life using me to get to my husband. I'm awful?!?!?!
2007-02-24 02:57:40 · update #3
ANy tacky yard art? Any sport equipment bikes toys, house need paint, too many vehicles parked in front? Basketball Hoop not put away? Some b itch tried to break my Dad and Mom up so I'm with you lady.
2007-02-24 04:00:07 · answer #1 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anytime the town gets involved, you know she knows it's you. Who else could it be?
If it were me, I would hold my head up high, go out on TONS of date nights/events with my husband, and invest in lots of trees and shrubbery that will totally obscure your view of her.
And tell absolutely everyone at the school what happened. Social shaming is what will drive her out more than the police.
I promise you that she will have another relationship distraction and will be obsessed with something else.
Wayne Dyer says, "You can't get enough of what you don't want". I know it's hard, but try to put your energies and focus elsewhere.
2007-02-24 14:28:32 · answer #2 · answered by emilsignia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, just move away from this drama. I was in a "neighbor" situation and they will NEVER stop. You just have to move and start a fresh, happy life. You'll be glad once you did.
2007-02-24 10:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're awful. Stop bothering this woman and get on with your life. You're just making yourself look bitter and pathetic.
2007-02-24 10:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could move more of your family into your house!
2007-02-24 10:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by andromedasview@sbcglobal.net 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋