how do i get out of this spell. I feel trapped and wanting to know answers and never getting one.
2007-02-24 02:11:10 · 18 answers · asked by mrs. doubtfire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You're letting them win.
2007-02-24 02:15:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you are being manipulated, by some one or something, either leave or if there is a chance you can resolve the problem then do so,
There are many types of manipu;lation, there is the good kind, like when your husband persuades you to the bedroom then there is the bad kind like if you are being blackmailed or have a habit and are given drugs for favors, so whatever it is do something. I would say if it a mind game play along till hes tired of it, use a littlep psycology, or reverse-psychology,which ever works, go to your local library and get some books.
2007-03-03 13:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by nadine_forbear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its hard to do.. extremely hard to do, but u have to keep telling urself that u know what is right and what is wrong, that u know what is the truth and whats not the truth.. even if u play into someone that is manipulating u, to get through the day, u have to keep yourself sane, and keep telling urself that u will find away out. that this is all just a game, and that u can play the game as long as u need to , TO GET OUT..put not letting urself believe in the game, or be brainwashed by the game.. when the manipulater is gone u need to be searching for ways out.. u need to start finding ways around the "game rules" .. for me, i was saving money on the side.. what little i could get my hands on, and pretending i was packing away winter clothes, when really i was packing and sending stuff to my mother through the post office, he thought i was putting it in the attic, and when he was gone i was taking them to the post office.. i packed up my car with what it could hold and left.. I had to leave most of my things behind, but it was worth it, those things u can buy again, i only took what i couldnt, photos, important papers, clothes, things that meant alot to me, and i packed up and left, for my best friend, she turned to the church, and the priest gave her money to help her leave and go .. there are ways out, u just have to be the smarter "game" player and find the solution to the "game".. and as long as u keep "reality" in your brain, and not fall into the the manipulation being "real" you'll be just fine..
2007-02-24 10:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by brwneyedgrl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept the fact that they are looking to manipulate you. No matter what they say or do there is another motive behind it.
Keep away from this person as no good relationship is based on manipulating someone.
2007-03-02 15:40:08 · answer #4 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHEN SOMEONE IS MANIPULATING WITH YOUR MIND~~~~~~AND YOU FEEL TRAPPED ~~ YOU NEED TO KEEP AS FAR AWAY FROM THIS PERSON WHO IS MANIPULATING YOU ! ITS ALSO CALLED," NO RESPECT FOR THE YOU" !AND WHAT YOU SAY TO THE ONE WHO IS MAL* WITH YOUR MIND?? THERE ARE TWO OPPITIONS: 1)WELL ALL YOU CAN SAY IN A NICE WAY IS," I KNOW WHAT YOUR DOING TO ME AND I WOULD APPRECIATE IT IF YOU PLEASE STOP MANIPULATION ME,DO I LOOK THAT STUPID OR WHAT? 2) YOU FEEL TRAPPED,THE ONLY WAY OUT OF A TRAP IS TOO GET OUT OF IT!
2007-02-24 10:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by BUTERFLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play the GAME back. Manipulate their mind. Good Luck
2007-03-03 19:41:17 · answer #6 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First it is your mind and no one can manipulate it unless you let them. So get control of your thoughts and walk around inside your head, to see where you are coming from and then you can draw your own answers and won't have to wait on anyone elses. While other's opinions help, it is yours that count. God Bless.
2007-03-03 05:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get out of the relationship and quit letting him/her maniplute you. You are only trapped because you are allowing it. If there is nothing binding you together like children or a house, I would get out now before it gets worst.
2007-03-02 15:42:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person can only manipulate your mind if your allowing them access. Do you allow someone that kind of access if they have a history of manipulating you. DO IT TO ME ONCE, SHAME ON YOU, DO IT TO ME TWICE, SHAME ON ME
2007-02-24 10:17:16 · answer #9 · answered by ckgene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you would be clear about what was manipulating, any incidence, people will be more able to help.
Well someoone is manipulating, cut him/her out of your life
2007-02-24 10:15:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel like you do my husband tryed to control me now that im seprated i still feel like he's controlling my mind i guess i got use to being manipulated . are you talking about a spouse ? need more information
2007-02-28 14:43:41 · answer #11 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋