She is a total drama queen.. and no matter what I try to do to win her over, she will always find something to twist it all around... She gets sooo "upset" over one little thing.. so far as she moved cross-country with my brother and baby neice (close to her family).. and cut off all family ties with us. over what? you may ask. well she came to visit for a week, and we treated her like a queeenn, we (me n my mom) did everything and didn't let her do anything, even pick up her own dinner plate after eating. then 1 day her friends came to visit her at my mom's house while we were having a BBQ.. my mom was doing all the work.. running back and forth.. and asked her if she could quickly make a burger for her friend while she was doing something else. I was taking care of my baby at the time, so i couldn't. She answered that "she's busy right now, and do you want me to call --- (me)?"my mom said, no , thts ok"...maybe my mom was overwhelmed so maybe her tone wasn't extra nice.
2007-02-24 02:06:17 · 5 answers · asked by May I Wish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By mends i mean "make up with her" and try to be friendly again... and call her
2007-02-24 02:14:13 · update #1
By mends i mean "make up with her" and try to be friendly again... and call her
2007-02-24 02:14:14 · update #2
after the burger issue, everything went downhill, and they had to leave after 2 days. Since then, she broke all ties thru e-mail and will not talk to anyone. and we know if we try to go visit our neice/granddaughter, she will not be there (will probably go to her mom's place)
2007-02-24 02:16:38 · update #3
Wow !What a B*#@%H. Unfortunately she is married to your brother and then there is your baby niece, and I'm sure you still want to be able to see them. Yes you are going to have to swallow your pride and make up w/her even though it sounds like you didn't do anything wrong. Maybe as time goes on and the baby gets bigger she will get over herself and act like a regular human being not royalty. I think sayinging something to your brother wouldn't even help the situation, if he came down on her it would be like adding fuel to a fire. So I would apologize, maybe invite them over again. I know I've eaten a lot of crow over the years with my own sisters for the simple fact that I cant live without seeing my 2 nephews. Do it for you niece and show her and your brother that you are a bigger person.
2007-02-24 02:24:54 · answer #1 · answered by Kris 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow what does your brother think?.sense shes a drama queen maybe you and your mother can talk to your brother.its not right .walking on egg shells when shes around.she sounds like a self centered b---h.you did nothing to her that you have to make mends with.it sounds like what ever you and your family does isn't good enough for miss Pris.you and your mother should be your self's and if she don't like it too bad,its making things worst when you go out of your way to be nice to her.she should respect you and your family .who cares what she thinks.what does a she think you guys are her made,your brother needs to get a back bone and say something to her.as long as every does what she wants then its only going to get worst .
2007-02-24 02:24:17 · answer #2 · answered by luv babygurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm positive there's a lot extra to this tale, yet from what you've stated, your relations were brazenly unkind on your spouse. buying presents for everybody else except her is an obtrusive snub and is unacceptable. until eventually there is extra to this tale and your spouse had finished something to them that they are justified in being indignant about, then your relations's behaviour is thoroughly unacceptable. i know how difficiult that is for you because you're stuck contained in the middle - besides the undeniable fact that, your loyalty might want to be on your spouse. you do not might want to get dissatisfied at your familly, yet you would possibly want to tell your mum and dad and siblings that inspite of they do on your spouse also they are doing to you. you would possibly want to help your spouse thoroughly in this remember. it would not remember even in the experience that your relations likes your spouse or no longer. It shows finished disrespect for you in the experience that they could't manage to be civil on your spouse and by no potential do issues to purposely be unkind to her. My goodness, i can purely imagine how dissatisfied and remoted your unfavorable spouse might want to sense with all of this happening - really if both of you fought over it. i encourage you to undergo in options that your loyalties are on your spouse and also you would possibly want to help her thoroughly and unconditionally in the front of your relations in any respect situations. To do otherwise, is quite hurtful and could positioned your marriage on the rocks contained in the longer time period. that is going to likely be complicated to fix this rift between your spouse and your relations, yet finally you know each component of the tale and are the purely individual that would want to be able to deliver a contented ending to this. it won't be able to be conceivable to achieve this, yet even if that is necessary adequate to you, you'll try.
2016-10-17 08:49:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to treat her special just treat her like she is family do you fuss like that over your brother, well she is your sister not a queen
2007-02-24 02:15:37 · answer #4 · answered by TBONE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of all what does mends mean? e-mail me the answer at katie11996@yahoo.com
2007-02-24 02:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by katie11996 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋