Please help me! im really paranoid if this is pregnancy?

Question

Well ok, im here paranoid, well i had my first sex encounter the 1st of February a condom was used and everything went well, it was about 2 days before my period ended, ok well after that i felt really sick and i instantly assumed i was pregnant because i am so afraid of pregnancy well for 2 weeks after the incident i was very sick to my stomach and nauseas, on the 15th i took a urine test at the doctors office it turned out negative and the 20th i took a HPT negative too, my symptoms went away for like a week now they are back, i feel like my lower stomach is swollen/bloated and ive been getting watery discharge,my breast seem to me to be swollen, and im constipated my period is due any day now...is this pregnancy symptoms or is this my period comming on soon?

Answer 1

a condom doesnt guantee no pregnancy its a 50/50 chance. but it sounds to me like you are just stressing, you cant let it get to you or your not gonna have your period. you can cause pains like your describing from stress. your mind could just be playing games with you. relax and try not to think about it, if you are RELAXING and the time comes for your period and it doesnt then take a test. you will not be able to until then. but relax!!!!!!!!!! keep me posted

Answer 2

Most likely you are not pregnant. Good choice to use the condom. Although no method is fail proof, I think you are scaring yourself into these symptoms. Some of these symptoms overlap between the two. If all else to relieve your fears take another hpt to be sure. Also talk w/ your doc to maybe start an additional type of birth control along w/ the condoms.

Answer 3

I really doubt that you may be pregnant - it sounds like your nerves and anxiety about having sex are getting the best of you - Your current symptoms are very normal bodily functions before you have your period

If you are that worried about getting pregnant - in addition to using a condom you should also use another contraceptive such as the Pill - or you may want to abstain from having sex until you are more emotionally ready

Answer 4

Honey, I really can't be sure, but those are all symptoms of pregnancy. I would definatley take another test. Some people don't have as much HcG in their body as others and a test won't show posative as soon. As a matter of fact with both of my pregnancys I didn't take a pos preg test until I was 2 months preg. Good Luck

Answer 5

It seems likely to me that it is just your period due soon. If you are really worried about getting pregnant it can cause you to start experiencing symptoms that will make you think you are, it's your mind playing tricks on you although I'm sure they are very real feelings. Perhaps you should try some other form of contraception if you want to be sure not to get pregnant.

Answer 6

Ok, here goes. Sounds like a case of the nerves. If both tests are negative, you are probably not pregnant. All of the symptoms you listed are very common with the onset of your period. Good luck.

Answer 7

sounds like you are not really ready for sex. If the condom did not break you are probably expereincing p.m.s. Did you talk to your dr about getting on birth control, that way you can use the pill and a condom for extra protection since you obviously do not trust condoms.

Answer 8

sounds like a period..HPT are pretty accurate, actually the same thing the docs use only they verify it with an ultrasound. maybe drink lots of water and your period will come..GL

Answer 9

I've already answered this question, check for it in your last posted.