i rang my mate on thursday to see if she wanted to go down town, and she said yeah, so i waited for her and i rang her to see were she is, she said she has to wait for her boyfriend, so i txted her awhile after but she never txt bk until 2day. DO YOU THINK I SHOULD FORGIVE HER. ITS NOT THE FIRST TIME SHES DONE STUFF LIKE THIS.
2007-02-24 01:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jackie O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its up to u 2either forgive her or not, but make sure u dun repeat the same mistake again :)
2007-02-24 02:09:09 · answer #1 · answered by Gayathri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is an old saying that in any relationship "the person that cares the least has the most amount of power". Good friends are hard to find, but crappy friends are a dime a dozen. I'd rather have less good friends than a bunch of crappy friends. However, give her a chance to make amends by telling her how you feel and then see how she reacts. If she doesn't give you a response that you are comfortable with, then as hard as it might seem, you need to "let the friendship go". There are a ga-zillion people out there that could be great friends for you, don't hold onto a dysfunctional friendship "just because". Plenty of fish in the sea...
2007-02-24 10:08:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend too who does that. I in the end realized I needed to invest less energy in the relationship because I expected her to be punctual and reliable when she was not. Since I do no longer expect her to show on an appointment there is nothing to forgive anymore. she has become a slightly lesser friend so to speak. But it were my expectations that ruined the day each time... So I no longer expect anything.. Works for me. Hope you find this helpful.
2007-02-24 10:05:48 · answer #3 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a 3 strikes and you're out policy. You say this isn't the first time she's done this, ok, would her 3 strikes be up? If so, then just pass on the relationship.
2007-02-24 10:03:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can forgive,but move on.She have of had enough respect to text back.that is just rude,Move On..
2007-02-24 10:04:36 · answer #5 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well jst go and say 'why did you not meet me or text me back' if she comes up with a lame excuse like ' my mum wasnt didnt let me or i didnt have ne credit or sumthing' say 'yeah yeah w/e' - (unless she really didnt have ne credit) but if you ask her she may say just say sorry ! :P
2007-02-24 10:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah shes a friend not a girlfriend
2007-02-24 10:05:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, here from Texas! That's no friend. Move on.
2007-02-24 10:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why are you still asking her out?
2007-02-24 10:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋