do we really judge...............................?

Question

people by their looks ..............we give a lot of lectures but at the end of the day we are after looks ! what say?be honest !

Answer 1

yes this is true
there was a very profound research among teachers, they were asked to assign what they think the approzimate iq is of kids judging by their photographs. There were pictures of pretty and ugly kids. The teachers were instructed "well please be as impartial is possible of the appearance, you are professionals and stuff"
As a result, the majority of teachers favoured pretty kids, they thought their iq is higher.
Everyone says: i don't care for how people look like, but many do care in reality and they care very much.
I am not sure it works with me though, really. I used to have an ugly in common understanding boyfriend, but i loved him so much for he was a great and very intelligent person. He also had problems with health and he didn't smell very well, but all his beauty was inside.
i think i am really the person who doesn't judge by appearance.

Answer 2

Everyone likes to look at a pretty face or handsome youth.
It is human nature to get attracted to anything/anyone goodlooking
As far as just getting attracted is fine but when u start taking
serious decisions or pass judgements by the looks of the person
here u commit a mistake.Like if u start considering a person as
very good or very perfect just because the person has awesome
looks then this is utter foolishness.
Take me. As a normal person i have normal temptations &
attractions. I really like good looking guys but only their looks,
not them....not atleast untill i know them completely.
Like i am a fan of Hrithik, Arjun Rampal etc. They act very well
& have got awesome looks. I like them but that doesn't mean
that i would fall in love with a person who looks as good as them
, not for the sake of his looks.
I don't know , u may feel i am giving u a lecture but honestly i
would like a person with a good, genuine heart rather than one
who has got dashing looks.
U know there r loads of handsome,popular boys in our University
but only a few of them r really good at heart.
One more example, There was a very popular t.v serial "Kahiin to
Hoga" shown on Starplus. There was a character "Sujal" played
by "Rajeev Khandelwal". He is so handsome that most of the
girls i know,even my friends used to watch the show just to see
him.I didn't watch it much because i found the character of Sujal
too grave. He never smiled !. But when he played the role of
"Rajveer sir" in "Left Right Left" i liked his character & role there.
Well, i got a friend who is a big fan of Hollywood stars & prefers
looks rather than a person's nature. I tease her but she doesn't
care.
Like, we all r human beings we all have our own weakness, not
to blame anyone.

Answer 3

Honestly, yes we all look and looks is what draws us in initially. But as we all know they can be deceiving. I don't usually judge, honestly, I may be hesitant to speak to someone if I feel they are not let's say appealing to my eye. But in the end it depends on what your looking for. The guy I think is appealing, you might not. And vice/versa. So does that mean I am being judgemental, not necessarily, I just have a different opinion to what is attractive to me than you do.

Answer 4

Yes people are judgemental by looks.
Now i am not the most handsome guy in the world but it is my personality people love, my ability to make people laugh,being down to earth,being a good friend.I tend to flirt a little bit but that is just me,i am loyal.

If you judge a book by the cover........you could be missing the best part.

Answer 5

I sometimes judge people by their looks. I know it's wrong...but that's how I am. I know I shudn't but it's something that I just do.
I am being honest*.

Answer 6

I doesn't matter how the person is from outside! what matters is how that person is from inside is he cruel,wise,kind etc..
a person can be beautiful from outside and can have a heart made out of stone inside

Answer 7

Of course we judge by looks ....were human. people are lying if they say different.

Answer 8

we do. not necessarily judge by how pretty or not they are, but what they wear and how they talk, we all automatically make judgements. but when you get to know someone, those judgements don't always stick.

Answer 9

YES, HONESTLY WE DO JUDGE PEOPLE BY THEIR LOOKS. BUT ACTUALLY IT IS OUR CHARACTER WHICH MATTERS MOST.

Answer 10

Face it, we are all superficial.