Well ok, im here paranoid, well i had my first sex encounter the 1st of February a condom was used and everything went well, it was about 2 days before my period ended, ok well after that i felt really sick and i instantly assumed i was pregnant because i am so afraid of pregnancy well for 2 weeks after the incident i was very sick to my stomach, on the 15th i took a urine test at the doctors office it turned out negative and the 20th i took a HPT negative too, my symptoms went away for like a week now they are back, i feel like my lower stomach is swollen/bloated and ive been getting watery discharge,my breast seem to me to be swollen my period is due any day now...is this pregnancy symptoms or is this my period comming on soon?
2007-02-24 01:42:24 · 12 answers · asked by L A 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
im also peeing alot which is making me even more nervous and im afraid i might miss my period thats due this week because of it
2007-02-24 01:50:09 · update #1
sounds more like nerves, stressing yourself out like this can make your period late. Just relax, most women wait untill they actually miss a period before testing. If the condom did not break than i wouldnt be so paranoid about it, chances are your not pregnant and are just stressing yourself out about it. Now if you do miss your period and still feel pregnant than what you need to do is get into the doctor and have them do a blood test and full exam, and maybe even an ultrasound. For now hun, just relax and go with the flow untill a period is missed.
2007-02-24 02:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by BaBy KiSsEs!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely your period coming on. They say that you can "imagine" pregnancy symptoms although I don't know if that is true. I know that when I first got married I was on the pill and a lot of times I would feel more severe PMS symptoms coming on and get scared and think I was pregnant. But, as soon as I took the pregnancy test I would see that I was not pregnant. It really is helpless to take the pregnancy test until you have actually missed your period. If you used a condom you have a good chance that you are NOT pregnant. I wouldn't stress anyway and just relax. Wait until at least the day your period should start and take the test, if it is negative, RELAX and you are NOT pregnant! The tests are hardly EVER wrong. I can't tell you how many I took to see if I was pregnant and I only got one back that was positive and that was when I really was pregnant and all of the others were negative and I wasn't pregnant. (I didn't get preggo on the pill...incase you're wondering...it was planned).
I wish you the best of luck, and please, try not to worry so much!
2007-02-24 01:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Troopers_Gurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it's nerves. If you used a condom and the doctors test are negative then your probably not pregnant. Try to relax stressing can make your period late. When I was younger I was in the same situation as you. All the symptoms too. But I wasnt pregnant. Your body can be really good at playing tricks on you. Also as for the discharge pregnancy discharge is thick and white. (I know sounds gross) Not to sound rude but if your not ready for the chance of a child then you shouldn't be having sex. If wish to keep having sex then I suggest to use condoms every time and get on birth control.
2007-02-24 01:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by aprildc82 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be on birth control if your so worried about getting pregnant. Condoms are not reliable enough and are often forgotten in the heat of the moment but it's great to hear your 1st sexual exp was a good one and you had the sense to use a condom.
Don't let it be spoiled by the worry about being pregnant. You could be pregnant because you took the test a bit early. You should ideally take it 3 days or so after your due your period to get an accurate result. If you are exp symptoms you dont normally get when due your period then its possible but these are all signs you are due your period and if you used the condom properly then its unlikely. Please arrange some birth control , i wont ask you to talk to your mum even though its the best thing to do...i dont know your circumstances.
2007-02-24 01:57:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably just being paranoid. Or you may have a urinary tract infection. If you miss your period this month, then test again. If it still comes back negative, you can quit worrying. Perhaps if the idea of pregnancy scares you so much, you shouldn't be doing what it takes to get pregnant.
2007-02-24 01:49:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 13:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a psych thing. You are so paranoid because just had intercourse for the first time.
Your symptoms can just be PMS or pregnancy, the are similar. So if you aren't ready for all possible outcomes, do not have sex again until you are emotionally ready to handle the consequences.
Good luck
2007-02-24 01:49:13 · answer #7 · answered by wheezerthill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you took 2 tests and they both came out saying no so your just nervous really, your period is coming soon. your just PMSin. you can get that before, during , and even after your period. Don't worry. Its nothing really.
2007-02-24 01:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is just nerves. I really think that if you're this concerned and paranoid about being pregnant, you may want to wait until you're prepared to have a child to have sex again. I know that's blunt, but it's for the best.
2007-02-24 01:46:13 · answer #9 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have you considered that you may have contracted an STI or other urinary infection? (Even though you say a condom was used.) Please go back to your doctor. He/she will be able to investigate (in the event that something is wrong) or put your mind at rest.
If you are in the UK, try calling NHS Direct.
2007-02-24 01:52:18 · answer #10 · answered by davidbgreensmith 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋