There's this guy who had a cruch on me... He is a mix of Chinese and Indian... I'm a Chinese... He said he had a crush on me... but it's very hard for me to believe him cos he tricked me about that b4... When I ask him about this, he said actually he din trick me.. He actually likes me that time but he doesn't wanna admit... He said he's scared to tell me last time cos he dunno what I'm gonna do... so now he tells me.... I'm not sure wether I should believe him this time or not? He got a sister and she's same school as me,same age as me and we were in the same class last time... I'm scared if his sis founds out about this... N ya.. I do noe his sis very much n we are quite close... So what should I do??? So should I accept him??? Please help me... I'm seriously confused and dunno what to do... For the ones who answer this question, thank you very much.... I really will appreciate your help so much...
2007-02-24 00:53:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you should do what you feel like you wanna do, dont worry about the sister, she will understand, maybe he should tell the sister he likes you first, and she might say something abi\out it then.. but do waht you really wanna do, ni zhen hoa:) wan an
2007-03-03 17:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I understand it you are saying that this guy says he likes you. He said it before but was tricking you into believing he likes you and he didn't? It is quite hard to understand what you mean exactly, but look, if you like him then accept what he says but be aware that relationships are hard in the best times. If he lies to you then you will be hurt. If you are not interested in him then drop him like a lead balloon. If you do like him and want to be with him then set up some rules up front. No more lying or tricks when it comes to the heart. You want complete honestly. He tricked you once that is OK, but if he does it again then you will leave him for good and send bad juju for his life. Don't be so fast to jump into this relationship. Just get to know him, slowly and keep your emotions in tacked. Get to know him better to find out what kinda of man he really is. Good Luck
2007-02-24 01:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience has been: don't date or go with brothers or sisters of friends. You will lose that friendship eventually because you can't count on this 'crush' that this guy has lasting forever. You and he will most certainly break up and then you will feel uncomfortable being close friends with his sister and seeing him around. Also, he may talk to his sister about you.
So just take a pass - skip it - don't accept him. Look elsewhere.
2007-03-03 12:34:54 · answer #3 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, listen to your feelings. If you find it hard to believe him, then don't. So basically keep it in your mind that he likes you, but don't have too much belief on it either. Just wait and see. If he really likes you he will come to you and he will try to get closer to you and want to get to know you more, then you can decide if you want to accept him or not. But if you and his sister are very close, then you don't have to be scared about her knowing. I think that she will understand if you tell her how you feel about it. Good luck with him...
2007-02-24 01:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept him for who he is as a person not what his skin color is we need to put an end to racism now. If you care for him Yes tell his sister that you like him and would love to go out with him see what hes all about. She may be suprisingly supportive. wish you luck on your decision... just dont let friends or sisters or brothers mothers or fathers give you permmission on who to be with give your self your own permission and I am sure he likes you... go get him ;o)
2007-03-02 20:32:27 · answer #5 · answered by misspookett 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... this james guy needs you to pass on. the entire I luv u bye became in simple terms an previous habit and probly why he said he became sry about it. This steven guy looks genuine awesome. He even said he would not pass out with you if james nevertheless loved you. that announces alot about a guy. (trust me.. i'm one) pass on a date with Steven and get to charm to close him. I wager you'd be happy you probably did.
2016-12-04 21:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sonds like ur interested,if he does 4 real hav crush on ya. if thats so go 4 it,maybe if shez ur tru freind it wont have her trippn 4 too long n shell com around to understand, the relatoiship u hav wit him has meaning n joyfullness for your life. also juz cus there sibblings , doesnt mean things allwys gotta its come to inmatour level wit i . keep it true
2007-02-24 01:11:58 · answer #7 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont u just give him a chance?? n help urself to get to know him better?? dont accept him as a lover just yet... try to be friend with him n...let time do the thang bout ur relationship with him.. u does not know if he is da one 4 u unless u know him just da way it should,,, so!! good luck n i does hope my nswer does help u 2 solve ur problem..... meckey ;o
2007-02-27 01:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by MECKEY Mec 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your instincts...GET RID OF HIM..say this ten times and let him go!!!!!!!LOSER and if you keep him around you'll be the loser...
2007-03-03 21:47:33 · answer #9 · answered by AlphaFeGreatWhite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋